how does a guy stop talking to a girl he had sex with an didn't like it?

Question

i started talking to this girl a week ago ,we had sex, but i didn't like it at all ,but she did ,an now i want to cut her loose.

Answer 1

Tell her that it was a mistake and you are not interested in her. Next time do not be so quick to take your gun out of the holster. Rule one never have sex with anyone you would not want as a wife and the mother of your children. I hope you use protection

Answer 2

Ok.. if you just met her a week ago and you guys have already had sex, she CLEARLY is not the traditional type. It'd be best to be honest and tell her that you don't feel the two of your are sexually compatible... no offense against her, you just don't wanna waste her or your time on something that doesn't feel right. True, relationships aren't all about sex.. but to a person who carries a lot of sexual energy, it's a major part of the relationship. She should be able to understand that if you were honest from jump. I mean, after a week, if she's a stable person.. there shouldn't be enough feelings for you in her where she can't just be friends and nothing more, unless a friendship isn't what you want.

I'm not sure how after just one time, you can determine that you don't want it again. Even if she was dry and tight or she didn't know what to do.. I can't see how it's not workable. Maybe you should give it another shot. Go out, grab a couple drinks or light dinner, do a lil making out every so often.. and chill.

Yeah, you could decide to not call her again but unless you two live states apart, you can't really avoid her. Not to mention, that's what a high schooler would do.

Answer 3

Well to begin with, I think that its kinda messed up that you are going to base your new relationship with this girl just because you didn't like the sex. I think that you should give it another try. But then again if your are going to end your relationship with this girl because of the sex, then that really says alot about your personality. Just giving you the 411, its not all about SEX.....
Think about it. Good Luck!!!!!

Answer 4

First, do or did you have any feelings for this girl other just getting it on????? First time sex with someone isn't always great. If you like her give it a chance. There's lots to learn! Maybe it was you!

Answer 5

If you like her then work with her to make her sex better practice make perfect but if you don't like her don't break up with her right away because then she go think that it was just for the sex and that will hurt her.

Answer 6

Depends on what exactly it was that you didn't like.

Was it the way she moved? was it boring? I would give her another shot, maybe tell her the stuff you like to do as dirty talk in foreplay...

Or you could be an a*s and never call her again. Then SHE could be like the dozens of girls here on yahoo! answers who ask "how come he never called?"

Answer 7

Wow... it just shows what type of guy you are. j/k haha
Thats f*cked up... but I mean.... if you don't like her.... let her know... don't play games with her head. Maybe it was her first time? I mean it's not right to just cut her loose like that. Just be nice about it... and explain how you're feeling to her.

Answer 8

Tell the turth, but not the whole truth! Let her know that you would feel better being friends than trying to pursuit a relationship

Answer 9

Too late. You've committed yourself, and now you gotta pay the price.

And don't try to weasel out of chld support. I've recorded your IP address and private detectives are watching your every move.

Answer 10

Yeah, just cut it off. Tell her nicely face to face that it isn't working out. Don't call her and don't answer her calls. You'll both get over it soon enough.