why is it that she always says "it's your home and you need to decide what you want to do to it" but yet when I say what i want to do she gives her 2 cents like her idea is better...and end up doing it...but yet, she says it's my decision...grrr
2006-08-17 07:00:37 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude, grab her purse, get your balls out and run without looking back...
2006-08-17 07:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get used to it. Either you are in charge or she is and to be honest with you nothing is going to change. She likes being in charge and obviously doesn't like your opinion/ideas, maybe the shop rack and car lift in the living room wasn't a good idea but you understand women consider themselves graduated interior decorators, my gf "says a gift" but I say be metro. Either way if you don't like it have her leave now because it only gets worse and if you are irritated now whats it going to be like 5 years from now?
2006-08-17 14:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by capitalistic_js 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman is always right, believe me I know.
I mean no body likes to admit that they are wrong, men can hack it and women can't in basic terms.
All men should know this, the only way to deal with it is to agree with her, and compromise.
Always have patience with her, make her feel important, agree with her even though you disagree!!
2006-08-17 14:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by n/a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a mind game to me. Seems she wants you to THINK that you are in charge but really she is running the show. Stand up to her and stand by YOUR thoughts on things.
2006-08-17 14:08:27 · answer #4 · answered by Latavish G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably just didn't like you're idea. At least she tried to include you in the decision.
2006-08-17 14:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by Quartro Ninos 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a give and take.If she cant give a little to do what you want to do. She is nuts. Any relationship should be a mutual agreement and working together and learning one another. Regardless
2006-08-17 14:07:12 · answer #6 · answered by katie_etheredge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she wants you to pretend to be involved w/the decisions but its really her decisions
2006-08-17 14:07:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women are bitchy and catty and they want you to feel important but want everything their way anyway. Almost all of us are like that. I do it sometimes but try not to be one of those. We always think we're right and want things our way.
2006-08-17 14:05:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women are like that. Tell her to quit being so pushy. Who says you have to do anything to your house?
2006-08-17 14:05:51 · answer #9 · answered by bown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmmmmmm - I don't quite know what you're asking here...asking for decorating advice maybe?
2006-08-17 14:05:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um-mm I sure hate indecisive people, dump her
2006-08-17 14:06:30 · answer #11 · answered by Free & Sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋