ok, well i have a problem with crying, like if something real little happens that upsets me i start crying, and i don't want to cry, the tears just start coming out, and i don't know how to stop them, and because of this my so called "friend" makes fun of me, and i just want to stop crying. can you please help me. and i am sorry if this is in the wrong catagory.
2006-08-17 06:50:54 · 28 answers · asked by Melissa♥ 3 in Health ➔ Other - Health
It sounds like you are either really sensitive or maybe there is some sort of hormonal thing going on with you. Do find that you're more sensitive at certain times of the month? Anyway a real friend wouldn't try to make you feel bad about that.
2006-08-17 07:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by Quartro Ninos 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OKay. Your catagory is right on target, and anyway, who cares? Sounds like you need some better friendss. They should be supportive instead of making matters worse. Tell them that you don't feel that they accept and support you, straight out. Also think in your head "you're fine, you're fine" over and over again when you get these urges to cry. If you can't help it, then try to make an escape to a bathroom or something to calm yourself down. Also, you might want to seek help if you are depressed. It doesn't sound like the situation is all that serious, but then again I don't know you. Use your best judgement. If you are constantly down on yourself and/or mad at yourself, ask your parents to help find you a counsler.
The best of luck.
2006-08-17 07:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few years ago i use to be in the same situation that you are in. To help yourself out, you have to figure out whats making you depressed and consistently crying. Try to enjoy life and do fun things that will make you laugh. Keeping a smile on your face will help keep the tears away. Try to avoid negative people. Having to deal with that will just make matters worst. When something or someone bothers you confront it with words instead of tears. Be strong.
2006-08-17 07:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I want to say that I don't think anything is wrong with you. People all react differently to situations. However, if you are concerned, talk to your doctor. Sometimes, crying over little things is a sign of depression ( a stupid name for what is really just a chemical imbalance). If that is the reason you cry so easily, it can be corrected easily with medication. More importantly, your doctor is a professional who can evaluate what is going on.
2006-08-17 06:59:52 · answer #4 · answered by Terry D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crying isn't a bad thing. Also, your crying so much might have to do with hormonal things. A lot of times I feel like crying at the littelest things. And if your friend makes fun of you for that, then they're not a good friend at all. A good friend would just help you throught that.
2006-08-17 06:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like something deeper hun...Like maybe you just need to let it out and you havent had the chance because your so called friend is just sitting there laughing at you instead of giving you a shoulder to cry on...Sometimes we just need a good cry and then all that little stuff wont hit us as hard. But when we havent let it out like we need to anything and everything will make us let a little out at a time.
2006-08-17 06:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by Bo Beeta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a could cry never hurt ne 1 and u shouldnt want 2 change because some1 else makes fun of u because real friends dont make fun of u and they may not be tryin 2 do so ......just tell ur friend how u feel about her makin fun of u because u cant stop cryin ....... i have a sister who is the same she crys 4 everything
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2006-08-17 06:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by mantrell m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mAYBE you are a true sensative person that can cry at the drop of a hat. Been there, still there, I still get over sensative even over something so little. Don't be so hard on yourself, being sensative doesn't mean your are a crybaby, it simply means you have a big heart and sometimes things said or done is taken hard to the heart and makes you cry.
2006-08-17 06:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well that's weird I have a problem, I don't cry ever...so it's all good relax and bit your lip so you don't cry or something before the tears come like think about something else that makes you want to smile
2006-08-17 07:06:08 · answer #9 · answered by lilmiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to cry, cry. It's you. I wouldn't be apologetic for who I am. If people cannot accept it, that's their problem. It may seem like the majority of people are against, when in reality, there are a lot of people under the table who actually would care a lot of a person without needing to be judgemental of someone's actions as compared to orthodox societal behaviour.
2006-08-17 06:57:27 · answer #10 · answered by Answerer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋