My son is in the first grade and when i drop him off at school he crys and chases me out of the school?

Question

Please tell me what to do i cant stand it

Answer 1

Just tell him you'll be back.Tell him he is going to learn new stuff to make him smarter,then he'll eat lunch and play."However"his schedule is.Let him know exactly what time you'll be picking him up.
"like after you play,or after math"I know this must be hard for you,I know it would be for me!

Answer 2

Obviously there is something bothering your son. It could be irrational fears of someone or something really has him afraid. Take time to talk to your son to find out what he is actually afraid of. If he cannot tell you, ask specific questions for there may be something he has trouble expressing. Give him all the love and reassurance you can. If you cannot get anything concrete from him, see if you could spend a day with him at school. There are so many things that cause insecurities for children these days. Work with your son and do not belittle his fears. Do not think he will just get over it. He needs to learn how to deal with these fears not ignore them. If it does not get better, keep him home for another year. You will get a lot of flak from others but you must do what's best for your son. You could also try homeschooling.

Answer 3

Ask your son if something is happening at school that scares him. Talk to the teacher about his anxiety during drop off time. Maybe the teacher can offer some options to make the transition smoother.

Answer 4

I would have thought that preschool and kindergarten would have put him into the routine of school already.Perhaps you could work something out with the teacher as far as easing ur way out instead of just walking right out.might be a bit of an inconvenience but your son might truly appreciate it.

Answer 5

Your child is at that stage where hes afraid to be by himself. He doesnt wanna go anywhere if mommies not there. He is afraid. Does he have any siblings? He doesnt know how to be around other children, he has to learn how to communicate and play with other children, becuz if he grows older, he will be self centered, and spoiled.
Whene you take him to school, if he cries, stay with him for a while. Let him realize that it is ok, and everything will be fine. Tell him that your going to come back, and hes gonna have a lot of fun.
Dont let him get his way any more, than he will take advantage of that. Hes still a babie, but trust me, ive taken classes and the parent needs to be in control, kuz everything begins from this age. You need to let him be with other children, if he doesnt have any siblings, than bring your friends children, or neighbors children for them to play. He needs to learn and develop with other children as well, that is very important. Dont suck up when he cries, he needs to learn. I know it will be hard, if you just leave him, but he needs to get used to it.

Soo Good Luck to you!

Answer 6

I did this when I was his age too. My mom was a stay at home mom she volunteered at the school until I was comfortable staying all day. If you can't do this you could always ask his teacher to help and pay him a little extra attention. My mom made me a little locket with pictures of the family in it...whenever I was sad I would open it up and it made me relax...Good Luck

Answer 7

Try this. When you drop him off at school stay with him and encourage him to go and play with the other kids. Once you see him making friends/playmates you can slowly withdraw. If he starts to wimper/cry tell him " don't you want to play with your friends?". Once he gets the idea that he has friends he will cease to cry.

Answer 8

because he going to be umbra's that he's walking into school with his mom when droping your son off give him a kiss and leave

Answer 9

He will get over it. It just takes time.

Answer 10

someone may be bullying him ask him why he doesn't want to go to school and then go from there.