and we already going out.we started talking in 2003
and the cd was dated 2004 and it said "hey babe...." "I Love You babe...." " Love....". And when I told him about it he said she gave it to him on christmas, then he said his birthday. I asked him if he still has feeling for her and he says no, but he does care for her. What should I do? I need help? They are making look like a fool!!! Oh found out that she knew about me. and she encourged him to talk to me. so I am totally confused. I want to believe that there are no feeling involed in this. Plus he tells me that he did love her at that time. now i'm just feeling stupid for being with him. I feel like I'm being played.
2006-08-17 06:21:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should talk the girl and found out what the deal. If he cant be str8 up then sry to say it leave him even thought it easy said then done. Plus she knows about you and saying to "ENCOURAGED" to talk to you. Could mean anything like about their past or present. Found out things about her but do this in mature way not being acting like a crazy person. And if he really care like his said. Tell him to prove you so you don't have no doubts on him. Plus they could be good friends and one thing to remember when you love someone for long time and the relationship ends. No matter what you will always have some what caring feeling for that person. But doesn't mean he still in love with her.
2006-08-17 06:34:43 · answer #1 · answered by La Dueña 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uhhh... CD? Did you check this CD out? Do you know if it's a computer disk or a music disc? Is it a DVD? A CD is an easy way to store not only music, but data.
There could be letters, pictures or ..Video.. on there that you should see. Find the disk and make a copy on your computer. Then check it out thouroughly. If you don't know how, get a smart computer friend to help you.
Good luck.
2006-08-17 13:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is she still around his life now? Are you the ONLY girl in his life now? Just because you started talking doesn't mean he didn't have a girlfriend. Maybe she was leaving and knew you would be good for him once she was gone. Maybe she's into guys and girls. Just talk to him and ask him what's going on. He can answer this question so much better than any of us can.
2006-08-17 13:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you need help. You need psychological assistance before you muck up your relationship. I gave my mom a CD for her Birthday that said I love you on it. I'm not trying to steal her from my step-dad and I'll be you money she can't remember what occasion I gave it to her for. You are getting freaked out about unreasonable things and there's likely a reason. Go see a therapist and let a professional help you sort this out. Until you're level-headed tell your boyfriend you need him to avoid his Ex because it's driving you nuts. Don't put the problem on him because it's not his fault you're freaking out about this. Tell him you need his support right now until you can understand why you're having this problem.
2006-08-17 14:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, home made mix cd's are corny, don't worry about that. not real important to men anyway. seems like he cant make decisions on his own. You need to step up and find a way to control him. then you'll be alright
2006-08-17 13:29:54 · answer #5 · answered by repentant sinner 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Play the CD, see what's on it
It could be harmless or she could just get off to being the other woman
2006-08-17 13:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sry...Is this ur first boyfriend? Grow up honey and get with the game. Guys arent designed to be with only one girl...the sooner you understand this, the happier you'll be with time any man will give you!
2006-08-17 13:26:49 · answer #7 · answered by Johnny Zero 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on how serious your relationship was at the date on the Cd, if you guys were serious. Dump him
2006-08-17 13:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by kitty cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel stupid, its probably for a good reason. i know from experience. if they are still talking, they are probably doing even more than that. i know
2006-08-17 13:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by swndawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he syas ther is nuthin going on then dont worry about it, trust your man untill u see sumtin that reallly bothers u
2006-08-17 13:27:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋