My wife is too scared to say anything to her. I"m planning to speak to her about it. am i wrong?
2006-08-17 06:17:42 · 28 answers · asked by RARE AIR 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe u shouldn't.She will get embarresed,
2006-08-17 06:21:13 · answer #1 · answered by abercrombie_lover101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have children .. use them as an excuse .. !
If you don't just let her know ... the walls aren't too thick in the house and you and your wife can hear nosies coming from the basement at night sometimes and to maybe get a freakin' radio or something ...
You all are mature adults .. there shouldn't be any reason why you can't talk to each other about this ... and why would your wife let you do it .. I'm not sure .. she sounds like she has some communication problems .... but good luck and don't worry if she gets embarrassed .. it's just masturbation .. she'll get over it .. and so will everyone else ... !
2006-08-17 13:27:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a lady but I do think you would be wrong to say anything to her. Just because she lives in your basement has nothing to do with it, she is in her home, in her bed, and that is her private time to spend the way she wants to. Mothers,fathers, and grandparents want and enjoy sex just like younger people do. Where is she suppose to go if not in her room? If she hears you and your wife making love at night do you think she should speak to you about it?
2006-08-17 13:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by smoke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good lord that is TMI but hell everyone need's a release once in a while Just ignore it and turn the tv up . I think i would just die if i was confronted on the subject, be happy that she still has the drive to have an orgasm and isnt a wrinkled up granny!!!
2006-08-17 13:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by Trish C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything to her. She got needs too. You need to be having fun with your wife and stop worrying about your mother in law is during.
2006-08-17 13:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by Apple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!!! i'm sorry about that...but it's natural...just put the music loud when U hear her or say smthg like U wanna sound proof the basement...she'll get the hint without an embarrassing conversation.
2006-08-17 13:23:16 · answer #6 · answered by Celebriel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how much it bothers you. If it really does bother you, you should confront her about it. It it doesn't bother you that much, try to cover the noise or tune it out.
You mother-in-law might be relieving some stress that she would otherwise relieve in anger towards you.
2006-08-19 12:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her be. Maybe she hears you and your wife. Make some noise the next time, maybe she'll get the hint.
2006-08-17 13:33:36 · answer #8 · answered by dbelyew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooo no! How embarrassing! Yeah, i would just drop hints about how the walls, floor boards are so thin and how it annoys you, she'll get the hint i think. Good luck!
2006-08-17 13:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I would not say I word...thats getting a little TOO close to a mother in-law for me. I guess just ignore it....besides.....maybe she just mumbles in her sleep.... (I hope)
2006-08-17 13:25:00 · answer #10 · answered by kmsgameboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are turn up the music in your room, get a fan drown the noise out, all women need what they need.
2006-08-17 13:23:20 · answer #11 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋