IM 23...NEVER CAME...BUT I WANT TO....I AM A REALLY GOOD ACTRESS BUT IM TIRED OF IT JUST FEELING GOOD...MY MAN OF 2YRS THINKS I ***......BUT NEXT TIME HE WANTS ME TO SQUIRT....BUT HOW? LOL...IM NOT EVEN SURE IF I CAN POST THIS....BUT REALLY LADIES HOW THE HELL AM I SUPPOSE TO DO THAT...ANYONE?
2006-08-17 06:13:08 · 13 answers · asked by SHAI 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can only come if u are excited .. obviously he does not excite you...it is natural---u cannot fake the squirt...let him try playing with your clitorus first for a while then have sex and see what happens....makes u much more excited and he might actually make u come by playing with u
2006-08-17 06:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women squirt, and if you man was any type of real man you would have come by now, I mean damn you go at that long enough and you gotta hit it at least once. I think you need to really tell this guy what's going on. I mean do you just wanna be his play thing for the rest of your life or do you wanna get yours too. Hell at least masterbate untill you come once so you can know what it feels like.
Only a small amount of girl can squirt, not all. Does this brain of a bf know that?
2006-08-17 06:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably can't! That is his job to lead you to that point and some men do not have the patience. You (two) must talk about it, before, during and after. You must not fake!!! This will make a small problem bigger.
I was sexual for 14 years before I had a real orgasm and eventually became someone lucky enough to have multiple orgasms--so I really really enjoy sex.
What made the differnce? #1 maturity
# 2 I changed men
Found a man who 'cared about satisfying me" , before he satisfied himself!
Good luck to you.
2006-08-17 06:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
23 and no orgasm?! OMG..you poor thing. In order to do this, he needs to hit your g-spot with his finger while licking your clit. Trust me! I was tired of faking it too. This is what finally worked for me. Good luck!!
By the way, don't be afraid to speak up and tell him what feels good and what doesn't. If he's been your man for 2 years, he should be understanding. Just don't tell him you faked before, tell him that you want to try something new..
2006-08-17 06:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, Cant wait to here some of these answers. The squirt is a myth and a dumb one at that. But seriously, i you dont ***, thats a problem!
2006-08-17 06:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by Michael C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well Shai
I need more information, but I never "squirted" until I had someone go down on me very very well. Has he done that? After that I learned to relax more and focus more on my pleasure than his and if it helps think about someone else like a celebrity you have eyes on. That works for me too. GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-17 06:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
even if you did come on a regular basis no woman can squirt on cue.. it's impossible. Actually most women can't squirt at ALL. so tell your man this.
you also need to tell him that you're not coming, ease him into it, and try to teach him how to please you.
2006-08-17 06:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by attila 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well maybe it's not you and it's him, you need to be stimulated rubbed in the right places,and it takes more than a few kisses then sticking it in there, sometimes the thrusting in and out is not the thing that gonna get you
I do but my husband takes his time with me and makes sure I'm well stimulated and lets me have my turn then he gets his turn.
2006-08-17 06:21:41 · answer #8 · answered by moglie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to relax and really enjoy yourself. But if he can't make you squirt you need to find someone else who can.
2006-08-17 06:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by Latoya W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is not your fault!!! He needs to take his time with you and when he does all the correct things you will have a wonderful wet orgasm.
2006-08-17 06:20:30 · answer #10 · answered by 55 and trying 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋