Girls, Have you ever felt shocked realizing how much you get more and more like your mother?

Question

I realized it and couldnt believe

Answer 1

YEP

Answer 2

Your question has a subliminal clue in it for you. You are asking girls if they agree with you about getting more and more like their own mothers. If you don't know what girls might think of this question, then why would you ask? It's because you've heard this question before, but now it's your turn to ask. You may have even asked it once before, but now you're asking on a deeper level. You may ask it again one day, on an even deeper level and actually believe that it is the first time you are asking it. The answer you seek is this. You are not getting more like your mother. You are merely realizing and agreeing with the ideals taught to you by your mother which are usually universal ideals taught to the majority of children, the same ideals taught in a variety of methods. If you choose to see through your mothers eyes on the method an ideal is taught to you, then you will be seeing life through the eyes per ideal the way your mother always viewed it. There are other ways to view the world. Methods are not genetics. Don't make that mistake, because you could upset the balance of your mentalness perhaps by thinking you are locked into a genetic spiral of ideas that which belongs to your mother uniquely and could never be your own. Do you understand?

Answer 3

My mother's a great person so it doesn't bother me in the least that I'm like her! She's not only my mom but she's also my best friend. What catches me off guard is when I'm dealing with the kids and suddenly I'll spout off with something that I thought was so cheesy as a kid! When that happens, it's all I can do not to bust out laughing even if the time's not appropriate!

Answer 4

My oldest, now 20, has come to grips with it because she is spending more and more time with me. I guess, as a mom, I'm not half bad huh? I was near 30 when I realized that I was like my mom and it was scary. But now that she is gone, I'm glad I grew up like her.

Answer 5

I don't get shocked by it.

It is just the way it is. The more you try not to be the more you are.

Just accept it with grace and improve on the parts that you didn't like about your mom and the parts you did.

Answer 6

Funny, I was thinking about that the other day. I was looking at a picture of my Mom when she was about 50 and I couldn't help noticing the resemblance between her and me even though I'm not that old yet.

Answer 7

Oh yes..............
some of the things i do , my mom did and i said i would never be like her..........Its funny though
I guess when you were growing up your mom always said the same thing all the time and now that we're grown up and have a family of own we say the exact same thing...........But being Shocked NO, not now.............I just accepted the fact i'm just like her in many many ways.............Good Luck

Answer 8

I remember one time at about 25 when I looked in the mirror and saw my mother's face. I was quite pleased.

Answer 9

In a way. My mom is cool though, I have never met anyone who doesnt like her, so I guess that is good, but I notice I am a lot like my father. So anyways have a good day

Answer 10

nah...I'm more like my father or so my mom says.I look like her though.Also,I don't freak out as easily as she does.We both have a nasty temper sometimes.
I guess we're really different cause I have 6 kids and she only had 1.We don't discipline the same either.
My daughter looks,thinks and acts just like me.(her brothers say she thinks she runs the house)aaahhhh,a queen in training(heehee).

Answer 11

I always get shocked and its mostly because i really dont want to be like her. I understand how you feel.