My friend keeps calling her boyfriend. He never picks up the phone. Then my friend told me to call him and it was another girl. I asked who was it and she said it was his "friend". I talked to my friends boyfriend the next day and he said that he didn't have a girl at the house. I told him that we got the right number, because my friend has him on speed dial. He just walked away. Shouls I investigate more on this situation or should I leave this alone?
2006-08-17 05:42:56 · 16 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you don't wanna be put in the middle of it.......Let your friend handle her own bf........Gotta cover your tail ! I suggest staying out of it..........but still being there for you friend of course......
2006-08-17 05:49:38 · answer #1 · answered by SexeyMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should leave the situation alone. It is not your place to investigate what is going on in your friends love life. If she wants to investigate, let her. I wouldn't say anymore about the situation. You don't know what the situation is and could end up causing more trouble than good.
2006-08-17 05:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by bre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a guy some years in the past that i did no longer comprehend until eventually 3 months into the dating that he grow to be married! men cheat and ladies cheat. it incredibly is enormously plenty even for the main section. Years later I abruptly met him and via that component we had the two replaced plenty. He grow to be divorced and that i grow to be nevertheless single. He needed to circulate to lunch with me so I agreed. After a pair of lunch dates we've been in a verbal replace approximately somebody we the two knew that grow to be cheating on somebody else. So I asked him...What makes a guy go with to cheat? First he mentioned that ladies folk cheat too...which I agreed to and then he asked me a query...He pointed to his glass of water and asked me what I observed. I advised him the glass grow to be a million/2 complete. He mentioned precisely!! whilst a guy or woman feels that they are no longer getting what they sense they go with or go with they circulate out finding for a thank you to "refill"...or fullfill a go with it incredibly is lacking or lacking of their existence. I gave him a humorous look and mentioned that a greater effectual thank you to restoration that concern could be to talk to the guy it incredibly is interior the dating with you and artwork on the matters rather of finding for a thank you to "fill the glass"! He agreed yet mentioned now and lower back a dating reaches a component the place verbal replace is in fact long previous. I asked why do no longer you in basic terms destroy up or divorce then rather of staying in a dating it incredibly is unfullfilling? He mentioned now and lower back the physique is able to circulate on yet no longer the middle or techniques...i think i will see that for the period of a undeniable way yet i do no longer comprehend...appeared like a cop out to me yet I wasn't him! real now you sense sorry for your self. This has hit you annoying by way of fact for the 1st time somebody has relatively harm you rather of any incorrect way around. it is going to take sometime which you would be able to recover from this...interior the propose time take into attention each little thing you're dealing with and use it as a great component. submit to in techniques this the subsequent time a dating does not artwork out and you're waiting to bail...i think of you will discover it's going to make you a kinder and gentler guy or woman...
2016-12-11 10:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, investigating more is not going to do anything but hurt your friend. The more you know the more it hurts I suggest if she feels like she can't trust him then she shouldn't be with him. And believe me when I say it's exhausting trying to figure out if hes cheating or not. My advice is get yourself BETTER boyfriend one that knows how to appreciate you.
2006-08-17 05:54:21 · answer #4 · answered by Cool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were u i would investigate a little bit more to find out who this "friend" is so your friend doesn't get hurt more than she is right now.
2006-08-17 05:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by Music35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, if a woman thinks the guy is cheating and she feels it in her guts, she might be possibly right.
this doesn´t mean you necessarily have to go frantic over the whole situation, but pay attention to the signs, and then make the choice to move on .
No one deserves to be cheated on.there´s plenty fish in the sea.
2006-08-17 05:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by Kalvaina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not your place to do the investigating but it is a good friend to tell your friend what you just said
2006-08-17 05:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by rsheets24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your friend investigate, stay out of it, because he is cheating on her for sure
2006-08-17 05:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by Danijela D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone it's not your business. She knows the answer now she must do what's best for her. If I were you I wouldn't get to involve in my friends business.
2006-08-17 05:50:31 · answer #9 · answered by Apple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's your business. It's between your friend and him. You don't want to be the one respsonible for the break up. But it does sound like he's hiding something. But that's up to your friend to find out.
2006-08-17 05:49:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋