What is this?He told me he like me?for real or for fun?
2006-08-17 05:36:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think I liked him....Coz I do feel 'jealous'? Arghhh...Tell me what to do now??? =(
2006-08-17 05:39:35 · update #1
He told me about his activities and that when he would be able to talk to me again and when he would not be able to talk to me. Well, we are currently in 2 different countries so we don't get to meet.
2006-08-17 06:11:11 · update #2
I guess you got your answer! He met someone else move on !
2006-08-17 05:40:53 · answer #1 · answered by jdfnv 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you didnt meet him in a bar...and he's not talking about YOU....then I'd tell him to go meet her and have fun! And dont take any more calls.
You seem NOT to have such a good connection to him that would make you understand either his sense of humor/flirting technique/teasing or whether he was being hurtful and putting you into friendship zone. He was boosting his own ego, either way.
If you dont understand what he says...then dont see him again as you'll only get more confused. Never date someone you dont understand fully as it will feel like abuse (even when none was intended) or it will BE abuse and you'll only suffer more from other things he says that you dont GET.
Mind you, people from different cultures usually try harder not to confuse the one they REALLY like, as they dont know how it will be taken. So saying it for fun or real....means he is either emotionally stupid or not that into you.
2006-08-17 06:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by Scully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for you to like him. As of him, seems like he's interested more in the girl at the bar than you. I know how sad it can be for him to do this to you. You must go on with your life and find someone who really cares about you and appreciates your companionship.
I don't know what the girl at the bar offered him. Or what attracted him the most about her. One thing for sure is, that he has made it clear to you that he wants to see someone else. If you still want him talk to him. Ask him what he really wants. Ask him who does he really want to be with. Don't take it too hard, he may not be worth the effort. You just find someone else and enjoy your time with him.
Don't call him or anything. If he wants to come to you, let him be the one to make the move, this way, if you must dump him, it would be for good, and you will have no regrets in the end. Good luck!.
2006-08-17 05:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by Mstislav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen honey, you are not in an exclusive relationship with this guy yet, so he is dating. Dating means you date other people, not just one at a time. It is how you meet others and hopefully find the one special somebody which leads to a more committed monogamous relationship. But until a guy commits to only dating you he is free to date as many women as he likes, just as you are free to date as many guys you like. That is what dating is all about.
These days people are confusing "dating" with "committment". It just isn't that way at all. Dating is not a committment to one woman until he askes her if she wants to try only dating each other. At this time you enter the part of a relationship called "boyfriend/girlfriend". Then it would be unacceptable for one to tell the other s/he wants to date somebody they just met.
Chill out or you will push this guy away. He obviously likes you or he would not be dating you. Women are always ready at an earlier time to become serious with somebody they are dating. However, guys are not so hasty with thier emotions. Go to this website:
http://www.ivillage.com
Go to the video section and then to relationships and then to "what women need to know but guys won't tell you". There are many short clips with men talking about relationship matters and they are great for any women to watch and listen to. I highly reccomend you check out the one tittled "when do you consider a committment?". Or words to that affect, I can't remember off the top of my head exactly how it is tittled. Men say they would consider going serious after a year of dating, most women are ready much sooner than this.
If a woman shows she is way more serious than a guy is ready for she can scare him off. She can also appear needy, clingy, insecure, and many other negitive traits that turn men off. Men like confidence in women, not insecurity and over neediness.
Go to the website and check that out. It will be good for you. I wish you all the happiness and joy life can bring. Blessed Be.
2006-08-17 05:50:44 · answer #4 · answered by Serenity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to be with you. Call back and arrange a meeting. If you like him, all will be well.
2006-08-17 05:42:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm, probably he may be testing how jealous you can get about him, meaning, probably there is no girl. Try to get a lil more information out of him, so you can know if that other girl really exists.
2006-08-17 05:42:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh so Man like, maybe he's trying to get to you, c your reaction coz you maybe have been playing hard to get. Maybe he just wants to C if you likehim or not
2006-08-17 05:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by blue 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well maybe he just likes you as a friend.!
Talk to him about it ! that's the best thing i can tell you to do.
Good Luck
2006-08-17 05:41:41 · answer #8 · answered by SexeyMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is all apart of growing up.Hes telling you hes playing the field.
2006-08-17 05:41:36 · answer #9 · answered by nanny2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god! he's obviosuly trying to make you say you want him etc and make you jealous but he's blantantly playing games and making your feel bad. Drop him and find someone worthy of your attention.
2006-08-17 05:40:41 · answer #10 · answered by edinburgh22001 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well technically yall are not datin so you really can't be jealous. Just ask him who he likes more!!!!! Then if its the other chick, well you dont need him anyway
2006-08-17 05:49:04 · answer #11 · answered by babygurl22 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋