am i right? would you do the same/
2006-08-17 05:22:57 · 43 answers · asked by MissyFlexsy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THATS THE ONLY THING LEFT IF YOU FEEL LIKE YOUR THE ONLY ONE WORKIN TO MAKE THE RELATIONSHIP BETTER THEN THERE S REALLY NO OTHER OPTION BUT MAKE SURE U TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL BEFORE YOU MAKE A DECISION LIKE THAT HE MAY NOT BE AWARE THAT HE NOT GIVING U ENOUGH ATTENTION
2006-08-17 05:29:50 · answer #1 · answered by pussy2damngood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in a relationship is just like having a job once you start one its new and exciting and just unbelievable but after a year or longer its starts to become predictable and everyday is the same thing. Once you reach that point and things become boring and not so happy anymore then its time to get out. In a relationship if you aren't happy with your man then its time to re-evaluate the situation. I'm glad that you aren't allowing him to pressure you into sex when he seems like he not doing anything esle for you and not that its always about gifts but women need to feel love and be loved. Tell him how you feel and if things don't change then it may be in your best interest to end things. Pray about it too. God Bless you
2006-08-17 05:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i would....men only have sex on their minds. If he is not benefiting you emotionally nor financially, you don't need him. You have to give a man hard love sometimes so they can see where you are coming from. My ex boyfriend is the same way i broke up with him and, he still calls me to argue about why i am putting out, he doesn't do anything for me but fuss and, he is jealous of me because i am independent, have my own place, car, and i take care of me. I am been the one that has picked up his slack when he fell and, he didn't even appreciate that. Honey...do what you gotta do to make you happy.
2006-08-17 05:34:15 · answer #3 · answered by keonna s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a relationship similar to yours when I was 16... I'm 20 now and thinking back I wish I had asked someone the same thing...
I broke up with him because I lost all of my friends; once I gave it up for the first time, everytime I saw him he expected to have sex; I didn't really want to, I did it a few times just so he wouldn't get mad, and BOY do I regret it! He never took me out or made me feel beautiful... it was brainwashing me!
I really really hope that you can get away from him like I did (better late than never)!
The best advice I can give you is that until you find someone who puts your happiness before their own, do not place theirs before your own.
Good Luck with everything...
2006-08-17 05:32:01 · answer #4 · answered by CupidsTarget 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he only wants sex then hes not worth ur time. and u are right. just break up with him and go find someone that does make you happy and surprises u with gift. u need someone that will make you feel like ur no. one woman in his life
2006-08-17 05:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it immediately. What good is he if all he wants is sex from you and don't even bother what will please you or make you happy. He is no good.
Get off the relationship immediately. There are still a lot of good men out there.
2006-08-17 05:31:55 · answer #6 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? The point of dating someone is bc they make u happy and u like spending time with them and if not tell them the truth and move on.
2006-08-17 05:28:14 · answer #7 · answered by leenabootie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he only wants sex from you and doesn't give you companionship, he's not a boyfriend. A key word in "boyfriend" is "friend". It sounds like he's just using you, in which case, you don't need him. Find someone who will love you and give you the companionship you desire.
2006-08-17 05:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by Quartro Ninos 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him if he can only make you happy in bed forget it he is just worried about his own happiness, a man needs to know how to treat a woman , take her out, he doesnt always hae to spend money walk in the park can be nice,he needs to be there emotional, clearly he isnt or pyhsically for that matter, find someone esle he is clarly using you
2006-08-17 05:30:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you're right! This is YOUR happiness you're talking about! The reason for dating is to find someone who makes YOU happy -- so learn from this relationship, and move on. Good luck, hon!:)
2006-08-17 05:28:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋