I was wondering how many of us there are.
I am 19, and have been with my girlfriend for 4 years.
Sometimes i feel like i might be missing out on crazy young casual relationships, but generally we are the best.
As young as i am, i appreciate that people can often wait a lifetime to meet someone as special as the girl I'm with,and to risk that would be stupid thing to do. And that always overpowers any other temptations.
But I was just wondering If theres any other ppl out there who agree/dissagree?
If only to make interesting disscussion, about something I feel strongly about!
2006-08-17 05:22:12 · 24 answers · asked by Drean 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. I've been married 18 years and have never cheated or been with anybody else. Sleeping around sounds exciting, but the people I've known who've done it have usually been either unhappy or unsettled. You're not missing anything. Commitment is sexier than any amount of philandering. Look after your girlfriend and keep living your life the way you have been doing. You are wise beyond your years.
2006-08-17 05:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is as good as having sex with the person you are in love with! You could go out and have a casual fling - but I bet you would hate it and then really regret losing that special someone. Yes you are young to settle down with one lady - but I think especially at your age you should see how this relationship goes. Usually relationships at your age dont last - but what do I know? Take it easy, chill out and just remember the grass is not always greener on the other side.
2006-08-17 05:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by MoMo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have only ever slept with my husband, and we have been together for 11 years. i met him when I was 14 and thought that it would never last because of the age difference between us, 7 years (you do the math!!) After a couple of years i realised that this was serious and started thinking that I was missing out. Then all my friends started talking about one night stands with people that they had only just met, and I thought 'that's not me' don't get me wrong, I'm not a prude, I'm just not that type of person. It made me feel happy that He was the only one and I really hope and pray that he will always be the only one.
2006-08-17 05:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by chelle0980 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its great that you are faith full to your girlfriend
your not missing out, having sex with your girlfriend will be the best because you love her, having sex with someone else might give u a little buzz but it wont be nothing special, and you will regret it later and think what in the world did i do that for?
i can understand what your saying , i have only slept with one person in all my life and i sometimes wonder what it will be like if i went with him or something? but i soon forget it because i love my boyfriend and if things need spicing up, theres always ways to do it
good luck x
2006-08-17 05:31:26 · answer #4 · answered by XxXxPinkPrincessxXxX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt say your missing out on anything dude...
If you are generally happy with your girlfriend and have good feelings for her... stick with her. I say this if she's your only encounter, or wether youve slept with dozens and dozens.
I have only slept with one girl... I am single now. I could be doing all those crazy things and all the rest with women but nothing compares to having a decent girl in your life. But then again... one night stands and all the rest are not my cup of tea anyway.
Thats my opinion i suppose
Good luck dude
2006-08-17 05:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by The Avenger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have been married for a long time and have never slept with anyone else. There's an advantage to it. You get to know what pleases each other and get very skilled. Oh Baby! : ) Who knows how long a relationship will last but, as long as it does there's nothing wrong with having just 1 partner. We're middle aged and still going strong. Who needs anybody else?
2006-08-17 05:38:51 · answer #6 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've only slept with 2 people my whole life- I am 24. I married my husband when I was 16 and we have been together for 8 years now and that is fine with me.
You're always gonna wonder what might've been- that's only natural, but it sounds like you have a wonderful relationship with someone that you truly love.
2006-08-17 05:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by < Roger That > 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep, my fiancee is the only one Ive ever been with, I understand you feelings about wondering if your missing out on reckless casual sex with strangers but if you just stop and think for a moment you'll realize no stranger could be as good as the one you love, and recklessness could come with consequences other than a hangover... :)
2006-08-17 05:30:56 · answer #8 · answered by plainwolf 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i definlty agree you can wait a lietime to meet theright person and if you hae met the right person do not screw it up with casual sex which people boost up cause it makes them feel better about doing it in all honesty the best sex is when you have been with somone for a while and you know what each other like and dont like ect
2006-08-17 05:29:14 · answer #9 · answered by sexyandsingle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not missing out on a causal unfulfilling relationship. don't be one of those guys that think they need to sleep around. if you found that right person, then be thankful. however, if you are doubting that she is the right person, then that is a different story.
you seem smart to not let any temptations get the best of you.
you know what's right.
and i'm 26 and have only been with one person.
2006-08-17 05:31:07 · answer #10 · answered by AreYouForReal? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋