Would u be ok if your man was bi? I dont mean he is sleeping with men, but...he admits he would try it out if the opportunity were to present itself (if he were single of course...no cheating)...just lemme know what u think...
2006-08-17 05:13:58 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank You Patrick...I do not see how two girls can be ok in a persons eyes, but 2 guys are not...either being with the same sex is ok, or wrong, there is no in between!
2006-08-17 05:25:18 · update #1
well...for you thinking i am a girl...lol...my screen name is txBOY19 for a reason...im a dude...i am not bi, nor do i have this problem...lol, I just saw this question on here earlier and i though i would repost my version of it to see what all u people really think...apparently there are still many close-minded people...i am glad there are some people out there that are open to these things...and for all of you girls that sy you are bi but it would be worng if a guy was...dont be a hypocrite...it is the exact same thing...
2006-08-17 05:29:54 · update #2
Well... Im bisexual, and my husband is ok with that, So if he came to me and said that, I guess Id be ok with it too... I mean really... Isnt that what love is... Complete acceptance of eachother?
2006-08-17 05:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I'd be OK with it. He's still the guy that you grew to like/ love. He's no different, and homosexuality isn't wrong or gross or anything. It's obvious that he's serious about you and the relationship that you have with him, as he feels that he can trust you enough to tell you this. It's something a lot of people are sensitive about, but he's put his fear of rejection to one side to tell you the truth about himself, which is very brave! He obviously cares a lot for you, or he would just have kept it to himself. You're lucky to have such a trusting, open boyfriend! Well done! Don't shun him because of this; as I said, he's still the same person. Besides, it's not as if he's actually having an affair! He said that he'd 'try it out if the oppurtunity were to present itself', but only if he was single, and he's not. He's made it clear that he's not planning to cheat on you, but has let you know about his feelings and emotions.
Hope this helps somewhat...
2006-08-17 05:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm..thats an interesting one. I dont think he would be considered bi unless he has already acted on it before extensively ( like an ongoing relationship). There are periods of time in men's lives when they usually do have some sort of "experimentation" with other men. Usually during puberty and their earlier twenties. Infact I have had some men share them with me because they were afraid it "made" them homosexual. And my answer was no. Women have times when they have these thoughts too, although I never acted on these personally. I have yet to be attached to a man while he was going thru this, so its hard to say what I would do. I think it would be hard (excuse the pun) to compete with another man, so I dont know that it would go over well with me.
2006-08-17 05:27:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think I would be ok with it if he wouldn't be cheating on me. You say he only would take up the opportunity if he would be single so you have nothing too worry about. You can tell him that you are glad that he felt so comfortable to talk to you about that but you need some time to let it sink in. If you really are very uncomfortable with this and can't get over it you might have to get separated.
There is also the opportunity of a 3some mmf if you are open to that.
Good luck to you!!!!
2006-08-17 05:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by heart_angela 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would make me feel uncomfortable ... double standard for me since I'm bisexual .. but still ... uncomfortable ... !
I'm not saying it's wrong for two men to be with each other ... and I feel everyone has the right to do what it takes to make them self happy in life ... but you asked me "what if MY MAN was bisexual" ...
I would be open-minded at first but if he ever wanted to act on his feelings and desires I'd have to see him with another man & that doesn't settle my stomach very well .... I would probably try a threesome out first ... then go from there ... but in reality ... it would never happen ... !
I love women & think they're the sexiest creatures on earth ... but seeing two guys go at it for me isn't my thought of sexy .... now 2 girls going at it ... now that's hot ... !
It's not the same thing ... either ... I find women attractive ... more attractive then men ... I'd rather see a woman naked then a man naked any day ... so why would I want to have a BF that is into the opposite sex more then me .... I want to be with somebody that loves women and lots of 'em ... not a guy that loves to be with other guys ... !
Again my opinion ... !
2006-08-17 05:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes of course thats okay. a lot of ppl that i kno would actually find you lucky for a number of reasons but the point is that bi ppl wouldn't exist if boys they were going out with thought it was weird and the same for girls. just let it go its not a big matter at all.
2006-08-17 05:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would not want to be a BI, because every time he would leave the house I wouldn't help but think if that opportunity presented itself. I just won't be able to trust him.
2006-08-17 05:20:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess its not much different than him being straight and being attracted to other women, but if he were to tell me that he was interested in experimenting with a man, then I would probably not stay with him because just to know that this is on his mind, I'd be afraid that he would lose interest in me if the opportunity came around.... that's just me.
2006-08-17 05:20:50 · answer #8 · answered by CupidsTarget 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No way!!!!!!!!!! Bisexual men 9x out of 10 go gay down the road, next thing you know, you have 2-4 kids and daddy is now gay....... he was only around and with you to have the kids, and then you find out that he was with men the entire time he was with you. Do you really want a man that is putting his penis up into another mans butt?? NOT me, NO thank you........ If your man is all about the butt, then bend over and tell him its just as good as another mans, only better, it doesn't have all the hair with dinglebarries hanging on it.
2006-08-17 05:21:59 · answer #9 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I dont think it would be a big deal, as long as he was truely Bi-sexual, and not just masking his full fledge gay tendencies. I would be impressed that he is open enough to admit to me that he is curious about other sexual avenues. Might make me more inclined to explore new things with him.
2006-08-17 05:19:50 · answer #10 · answered by Lemme tell ya... 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't get me wrong I don't support anyone being by gay, lesbien, or any other sexual preference but straight but if he told me about it when we met then I would be okay with it if I supported it but if I didn't then I would tell him that and not pursue a relationship with him. If I was already dating him then I would talk to him about it. If you like a person you must like him for who he really is not just what you want them to be!
2006-08-17 10:38:39 · answer #11 · answered by christysjosh_18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋