We were doing this sweet thing with sending eachother e-cards every week, I got so that I couldn't wait to recieve them. Then we got in this arguement because he got a new cell phone about a month or so after he lost his service with the other one. We are suppose to be close and in love, he never said anything about thinking of getting or going to get. He got the phone about a week or a few days less of a week and called everyone on it but me. I found out through my roommate and I was furious!! So we fought and then had make up sex, and we are suppose to be ok........ since then I haven't recieved another card, yet I have still sent him some. He does this after we fight, he stops doing sweet things that we were doing, and that really hurts and I can't get him back into the sweet nothings......... what can I do and why does he do this?? He really hurts me and I think he knows that he does, and yet still does this to me........ please help..... please. Thank you.
2006-08-17 05:13:52 · 12 answers · asked by shy&gental 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a guy, I can tell you he is playing you and knows he has you wrapped around his finger.. make up sex doesn't resolve anything, that's a guy thing...
You've already said "he hurts me" whether its mental/physical if you TRULY feel this way, YOU NEED TO MOVE ON!!!
It will only get worst before it gets better & as tough as it will seem, things for you will get better..
2006-08-17 05:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He does it to hurt you, it's immature, yes, but that is the way some people deal with things-it helps them get their way. If I wre you, I'd either move on or if you think that it's love & want to work it out, stop giving so much until you recieve something. Stop the e cards, stop the make-up sex, he's just using those things to have a little control.
2006-08-17 12:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is so important ? Both of you had a "relationship" through e-cards. If he didn't call you is because he never did it before. An advice. Try to keep the distance between you both, because a man feels jailed when women are fighting, calling everytime, suspecting abouth everything. We sometimes become selfish and we want some time just for us without caring about calls, fights .... everything
2006-08-17 12:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by madness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is purposely doing things to hurt you, and the thing is you know it. Stand up for yourself, don't let him take advantage of you!!
if you got a new cell phone, who would have been the first person u would have called!! think of it. the person you love should love you just as much or even more. do not let him continue taking you for granted!!!
2006-08-17 12:20:55 · answer #4 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so easy!
Stop being so sweet and give him some of his own medicine.
If he doesn't make an effort for you, then you shouldn't be making such efforts for him until he deserves it.
And don't "just" have sex because you can- have some pride.
2006-08-17 12:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by canguroargentino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you two just maybe need to talk things out and ask him why he is acting that way and tell him that it hurts you!!!it always helps to talk it out trust me!!!!it has happend lots of times to me!things will get better in time!but it takes time!
i hope this helps you just a little
just remember this some guys are just like that they are hard to figure out!!
2006-08-17 12:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by crystal t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probaly cuz he got you on lock now, doesnt seem like he needs to impress you anymore with all sweet nothings, basically your in a relationship where he feels comfortable with you, and now hes acting like himself. his real self
2006-08-17 12:21:09 · answer #7 · answered by huymix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're dating a child. Move on.
2006-08-17 12:19:10 · answer #8 · answered by krd12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got a new cell phone and didn't call YOU???? The BASTARD!!!! How could he??????
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-08-17 12:20:19 · answer #9 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
e-cards and emails are not as effective as face-to-face. then you can be more confident of where your relationship is.
2006-08-17 12:20:42 · answer #10 · answered by sifustu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋