Well where do i start!! I was with my ex for 8 months!! Two months ago he told me by text message that he was moving away for three months to work!! Were not together as were gonna wait till he got back to see wat happens! He promised that he would keep in touch and he has`nt!! I`ve text him a few times and he`s replyed but im fed up with making the first move all the time! Wat do i do? Do i wait till he comes back to see wat happens!?! Or do i just forget about him??? hmmmm decisions decisions!!
2006-08-17 05:12:30 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forget about him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-17 05:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to see what happens just wait for him to come back, but in the mean time....party girl !. You guys aren't committed so that doesn't stop you from leading an outgoing life right....why should you be the one always trying to contact him. DOn't text him or call him for a couple of days. If he's really interested he'll give you a call sooner than you think. If he doesnt, them it's time to move on....go luck
2006-08-17 13:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch!!! It pays to have a lot of patience. If you think he's been abusing your trust then let him go. You don't deserve each other. Being into a relationship requires a little sacrifice and compromise. A man who who makes promises is immature and a man who can not keep his promise is not man at all. Tell him to take time to be a boy and when he's ready to deal seriously then he's ready to grow mature. Make sure you also do the same and/or if you're done with the process then you deserve my Congratulations.
2006-08-17 12:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by Bully Charmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance girl. If he was moving away to work he's probably busy. For gosh sakes it's only 3 months. At least wait until he get's back. Maybe while he was gone he just hasn't had the time.
But if whe he get's back he keep ignoring you or doesn't give you some time, then dump him. Because then you know he isn't serious and he's not persuing you, so honestly he isn't a man...
2006-08-17 12:19:05 · answer #4 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sick of making the first move then stop.
Listen to your own words. Are you making the first move because he isn't?
What is the reason for this?
I don't think I would totally forget about him, he evidently means something to you.
I do believe I would stop thinking of him as "my" anything.
Once you drop the possessive angle to the relationship it doesn't seem like such a loss, and stops being nearly so frustrating.
I do believe I would start dating again until I found someone who is not so frustrating to my agendas.
If the time in a relationship is filled mostly by negative things (i.e. frustration,) then isn't it a waste of time anyway?
I am sure frustration is not the result you are looking for in a relationship.
If it is then consider yourself satisfied.
2006-08-17 12:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I do not make a promise that I cannot keep,and if I was unable to not back up one,in that case i would be man enough to give you an explanation as to why,as far as waiting for him I am sure you now that time is something that none of us have we only use it,and no one should use it up alone.I hope this helps you out!
David
2006-08-17 12:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when men make decisions, it's usually what they would LIKE to accomplish, not what they WILL accomplish. if i were you, i would wait until when he gets home and talk about what happened. maybe there was a reason that he didnt txt you back, some stupid reason like he was in a noisy place and didnt hear his cell go off -- the little things. try contacting him a few more times. if he doesnt return the favor, just dont contact him anymore and wait until he gets home to talk to him.
hope it works out!
2006-08-17 12:19:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple - don't make the first move anymore. If you don't hear from him then you can assume it is over and move on and meet someone else. Go out and have fun and get on with your life instead of waiting by the phone. It is his loss.
2006-08-17 12:46:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be to wait for him to contact you. If he doesn't hear from you in awhile, he's giong to start missing you, and he'll be back. Just let him think that you're doing fine without him and give him time to miss you. I know it's hard.. but it just might work.:) Good luck!
2006-08-17 12:22:10 · answer #9 · answered by Kasey Jaye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
herrmmm men dont you think you should not type cast us all with statements like that. i would advise you to take a little more time in the type of man you go for.
2006-08-17 12:28:10 · answer #10 · answered by JAY JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men make promises they want to keep aren't always able to. Women are just evil and manipulative.
Viking xxx
2006-08-17 12:22:18 · answer #11 · answered by Viking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋