I have been seeing this 50 year old man we have great great chemistry and great sex and we never fight have a disagreement or anything I feel so secure when we are together but we have talked about the future and he tells me he would like one with me and that he wants me to move in with him I have been seeing him for over 7 mos now off and on what to do anyone should I shoot for the stars?
2006-08-17 05:03:30 · 27 answers · asked by poohbear27 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dating is ok... but before you live together or get married, make sure you discuss both of your goals (children, careers, plans for travel and owning a home) to make sure they are compatible. a lot of people that have such a huge gap in age have different perceptions of what their future has in store, which can lead to conflict
2006-08-17 05:08:47 · answer #1 · answered by Marina 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The age difference is no big deal at this age but in 10 years or so it will show up as an issue. It may still be a fun ride until then though. I'm 15 years older than my wife and she helps me stay young. So far we are OK most of the time, but my friend that was 20 years older than his wife is alone now that he turned 70 and she went off with a younger man.
2006-08-17 12:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by 55 and trying 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great that you have such good chemistry with your older man. Relationships are always evolving and changing....what kind of relationship will the two of you have in 10 years when he is 60 and you are 37. Will you have the same interests and concerns? Will there still be that physical attraction or will you be absolutely turned off? Things to think about. Good luck!
2006-08-17 12:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, age doesn't matter as long as he loves you and treats you right. In fact, you should be proud you found such a nice man. My Father (42) is dating a twenty-five-year-old and they've been together for two years. Again, as long as you guys love each other, go ahead and do it. After all, it IS your life.
Just make sure your parents know about this, which I think they already do. But, be careful anyways and have a back-up plan. You know, like an extra place to stay or something.
Good luck!
Your friend,
Turtle Power!
2006-08-17 12:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by Turtle Power! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you believe you are ready for this step with him, I say go for it. Age is no dictator of love. My aunt was 21 when she met my uncle who was 56. His kids were older than she was. They shared twenty nine happy years together until he passed away 6 yrs ago.
Good luck and don't let anyone steal this time from you. Yes he is older but that just means he's already been through the s*it in this life to appreciate you for who you are and love you all the more.
2006-08-17 12:13:40 · answer #5 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad is 50 and he dating someone a year older than me. She is 27. I could not ask for anyone better for my daddy. She is amazing and I love her. They have been married for three years and she makes him happy and that is what counts. I have never seen my daddy like this. She is great with my little boy and she makes our family whole. So you are not doing anything wrong. You be happy for yourself that you found someone to love, that is hard enough to accomplish. Good luck to you:)
2006-08-17 12:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl...the dude is nearly twice your age...It's like you see a baby being born right now, and say "I'm gonna wait 25 year til you're older and then go out with you." HOW did this 50 year old dude get you??? Heck if he's that good...and you've already done it with him you should stick with him, however I don't know how it's gonna work out and all...
2006-08-17 12:10:11 · answer #7 · answered by Matt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I are 13 years apart and it couldn't be more wonderful!!!! I have always dated older men because they know what they are doing and have their lives together more so than guys my own age. Sex is fabulous because they are more concerned on making you feel good than themselves. I say go for it and enjoy a happy life with your older man!!!!!
2006-08-17 13:08:18 · answer #8 · answered by Trish C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both adults, sounds like you guys are a great couple. Enjoy it. Age doesn't matter if you really love him. I dated a few guys older than me, they treated me very well. They have more patience and understanding of life and women. I won't lie, you will have people who will ask or assume he's your father. Just laugh and ignore it.
2006-08-17 12:11:51 · answer #9 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want people to call you "Anna Nicole"...you have no future with this man, he's just happy he can bed a 20+ year old.
2006-08-17 12:09:48 · answer #10 · answered by pamspraises 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋