What can I do when I finally meet the man of my dreams? Can a girl make the first move? Am I letting a good chance slip by if I don't? Or should I play by the rules and wait?
2006-08-17 04:57:35 · 13 answers · asked by Charlotte 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't sit by. But don't make the first move. Get into his life and be friend first, and connect. That way you aren't letting him go by. But let him make the first move. Why? Because if you do, he's not going to have to work for you since it's obvious that you really want him. He's a punk if he thinks he shouldn't have to persue and work for you. And if you make the first move then he can just sit back and have you put all the effort into the relationship...He's the man, he should be persue you. If he doesn't he isn't a man, he's a weakling...don't both. :-p
2006-08-17 05:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Understand his livinf habits and be his friend first. This way you can know him better. If he is really your dream guy, then you can make the first move in thist way you are not letting him go away. If you do not make the first move, you may lost him to other girls then you may regret later why you didn't take the opportunity. Once you have lost him, it is not easy for you to find another dream guy like him. Utlimately, you made the final decision on if you want to make the first move
2006-08-17 18:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play by the rules and wait. I'm a firm believer in that guys have to make the first move. I feel if a girl does then the ball is in his court. Guys cant handle having the ball in their court. They will always take it for granted and abuse it. Guys dont respect anything they dont have to work to get. I know they say its a new age now but it really isn't. Dont guys still think a girl is a sl*t if he sleeps around ? Nothing has changed when it comes to dating and love.
2006-08-17 05:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes the girl can make the first move, If you've met the guy of your dreams don't let him slip away make that first move and carry it on from there.
2006-08-17 05:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by The Plague 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hint or ask a fren to tell him indirectly ... but make sure he is a good guy worth the doing do so ... make sure he is also serious about you and respect you and treat you as you would treat him. Dun let him take this opportunity to get fresh with you or take advantage of you, then kick you aside.
2006-08-17 06:49:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jumper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, go ahead! Be confident and sure of yourself ... there are no rules to follow; make your own instead! (And plus, waiting is the worst way to waste time!)
2006-08-17 05:09:22 · answer #6 · answered by MeeT 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothign wrong with a girl making the first move. i think most girls dont do it cuz they are really shy but if u really like him then go ahead and make it.
2006-08-17 05:03:03 · answer #7 · answered by Beca <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it and strike while the iron is still hot. but take it easy and dont scare him away...lol.
times and practice have changed. go for it.
its better to know than not? its a matter of time.
go for it girl!
2006-08-17 13:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by dream_drifter05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the guy if a chick makes the first move with me i would probbly give her the world.
2006-08-17 09:07:17 · answer #9 · answered by ArchAngel Raziel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If U really like him, then do it... It's not wrong... U are only doing and trying to get what U like.
2006-08-17 08:01:43 · answer #10 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋