My lover is 55, I am 42. This man gives me the best sexual intercourse I have had in my life. It is so good that I cannot wait for the act to happen. But now that we have been involved for over a year, you know human beings are never satisfied. I want the foreplay, not to mention I have fallen in love. There is no foreplay, when I ask him to do certain things, he states don.t ask him to do things, just let it happen. Is this control, is he playing me, does he not like me, and yes, I am very sexually into him. What do you all think?
2006-08-17 04:55:04 · 9 answers · asked by victory 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is sounding like it's just f*ck and go. I do admit that there are times I want that kind of sex but obviously most times I want to be 'loved', I want the whole nine yards as they say.
If he is not willing to add to your pleasure you can settle for this because you do admit that the actual sex is great, then go for it. But if you are not fully satisfied , do not settle for less.
Try setting a romantic atmosphere, a hot bath, with strawberries, whip cream etc and see if you can manipulate some lovemaking out of him.
2006-08-17 05:07:07 · answer #1 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok it happens to all of us
in the beginning we show off and give u a time of your life
then we get comfortable
that what is happening to u
now first thing u can not tell him what to do
u know what he is going to say "exacting what u wrote on here" reason being u r forcing it, let it be
dont tell him
guide him to the foreplay,
if that doesnt work
sit one day, no serious talk but suggest ideas and bring out the topic on foreplay
dont nag him to do it
it will grow more resistent
believe i was like that but not when it came to sex
it came to being more affectionate
let the person be
he still loves u
2006-08-17 05:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever get foreplay? If you did you need to remind him that that was one of the acts that hooked you. What people do to get a mate is what they HAVE to do to keep a mate.
I understand where he's coming from about the asking, because he won't have the passion of he feels like he has to do it. You need to talk to him and let him know what is important to you in the bedroom, especially if you are giving it to him the way he wants it. What's fair is fair.
I have always required my lovers to please me and not just get off. If I'm not being satisfied, he won't be satisfied. I also make it known that I won't stay with anyone that can't take care of MY NEEDS.
You have to toughen up girl and stand your ground.
2006-08-17 05:36:17 · answer #3 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It never goes smoothly the first time. Don't stress yourself out trying to make it magical or amazing. The more relaxed you are, and the more you enjoy yourself and the moment, the better it is. The major thing about foreplay is, the longer the better. Why rush to the finish line?
2016-03-27 06:07:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No foreplay, no deal.
2006-08-17 05:01:04 · answer #5 · answered by pamspraises 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
great question!!!!!! what did ever happen to foreplay? does it even exist antmore?
2006-08-17 05:01:00 · answer #6 · answered by butterfly_lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's not even willing to listen to what you like and want then there is a problem
2006-08-17 05:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE just dosnt like foreplay............
2006-08-17 05:00:59 · answer #8 · answered by 800 bound 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wanna know that answer
2006-08-17 05:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by omarionsgirl1983 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋