I just want to know cause what if your guy is just the kind of guy who flirts with everyone? I know I do...cause I have always flirted with everyone...it is just in my nature...I usually do it without even noticing I am doing it...would u consider this cheating if it was just innocent flirting? I would never cheat...I just flirt...constantly
2006-08-17 04:47:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Innocent flirting is fine, but flirting with intent is off limits. You know the difference.
2006-08-17 04:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's ok, it just depends what kind of flirting it is. I mean, I have a jokey way of talking to people and it can sometimes be construed as flirting. It's a fine line. I guess the main thing is: make sure you're not hurting your girlfriend. It depends on how secure /insecure she is. My guy's pretty secure & knows I love him, anyway he has a flirty personality too so it's ok.
Also, I know guys who have girlfriends who are flirty to talk to. But I know they are just being like that because it's fun. Just make sure you're never giving anyone the wrong idea, or leading anyone on. And make sure you're doing it for the right reasons: if you're doing it to get attention from the ladiez & trying to get them to LOve you then maybe it's Not a good thing to do.
And save your best flirting for your girlfriend. However much you flirt with anyone else, flirt the most with her. :)
2006-08-17 05:03:54 · answer #2 · answered by Cina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can handle flirting without cheating its ok. Make sure you don't have any very good friends who are female, because bad things are bound to happen. Simple flirting is okay.
2006-08-17 04:56:08 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there's nothing wrong with flirting. as long as you know the limits (no touching, kissing, cheating..). Try to explain this to your girlfriend, she should be understanding about it, unless she's the extreme jealous type. But still, try to restrain yourself and don't flirt with other girls when she's around, this she will probably notice and not feel too great about having to witness it.
2006-08-17 04:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by Petra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not cheating your just being who you are i'm also known as a flirt however my flirting is harmless just having fun making others feel good about them self's
2006-08-17 05:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by queen2be 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is not cheating, and is absolutely okay (just as long as you don't act on it)
2006-08-17 04:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with flirting mista. its good for your self-esteem, its a normal, natural healthy thing to do. i think we all flirt at times consciously or subconsciously whether we are single or in a relationship
2006-08-17 04:58:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was told (by a wise man) that if you are not married then you are still single..even if you have a gf/bf...so it should be ok to flirt
2006-08-17 04:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by Daddys Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not technically cheating but i would try to catch yourself before something happens that could make your boyfriend upset with you. even though you said he does it too he might take it the wrong way.
2006-08-17 05:06:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋