i have a sister that is getting married and we were close and dont get me wrong i love that she is getting married but the thing is that after the wedding and about 2 weeks after that we are going back home with out her and we allready have been with out her for about 1 year, 4 months what should i do with out her and i really can use her advice right know but i do give advice but she is my sister what would you do if you were me?
2006-08-17 03:43:29 · 10 answers · asked by Princess austin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Talk with your sister, try not to be selfish, listen to her, and talk with you mom or dad, too.
2006-08-17 03:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by oneclassicmaiden 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seperation is hard and your relationship is going to be different now; that isnt a bad thing. When you get married you will have someone to talk to about your marriage and she will probably be very happy for you when you do, your sister is grown up now. You should do the same for her, be happy that shes getting married and that shes going to have a marriage life and learn to be happy even though you are sad. Thats the best thing that can happen to a person; getting a lifelong partner. sometimes we are sad when we see people go but she is not just going anywhere she is headed to the next chapter of her life. So be happy and its ok to be hurting and sad, thats your sister and those feelings are natrual! Everybody is going to miss her but everyone is happy for her! do something with her before she leaves; yeah do something fun; to bring some great closure to her unmarried life; more for you though, think something that you'd like to share with her. Be the host of the day because thats gonna be your day! you two probably already do stuff but do something different. Make some art with it! Have fun and take care and remember you really can edure and your strong and your worth it and you'll learn that with everygood bye you'll learn.
2006-08-17 11:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by AGENT SMILES 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you call, email, or write her? I know that married siblings need space, give her some time until she has settled into married life and her husband. After that, I would give her a call about once a week. Let her know that you miss her and talk to her. Family closeness doesn't diminish from marriage. I'm sure she'll miss you too.
Also, you can try to get involved more with extra activities and friends. Like sports or creative stuff. Good Luck!
2006-08-17 10:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by victorygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember when my big sister left home. I was so lonesome for her that I used about 2 weeks babysitting money and filled a little box with all the things that I thought she could use and think about me when she was using them and know that I loved her and missed her (she was at university and on a limited budget) so I bought her 2 pks of her favorite candy, nice writing paper envelopes stamps, a book by her favorite author, a coffee mug, speciality tea pks pen pencil, eraser magazines and then on the box I wrote with a felt marker CARE PACKAGE BECAUSE I CARE ABOUT YOU . 30 years later she still tells me how much she loved getting that gift because she was really lonesome the day she got it. Oh and Put a nice juicy letter in the pack and tell her all the things that you want to tell her and ask her. She will love it
2006-08-17 10:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by diane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's still your sister. Give her a few months to get being a newlywed taken care of then if you need advice call her or email her.
just because she is moving away doesn't mean she'll forget about you
2006-08-17 10:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by shinobisoulxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is put aside your feelings for now and help her enjoy her special day. Then maybe after you can talk to her about how your feeling. I'm more than sure she will still be there for you when you need advice.
2006-08-17 10:49:56 · answer #6 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister moved out and it was really hard on me but you really can't do anything about. I mean, it is her life no matter how hard it is on you. My sister and were and still are close and she only a phone call away. Good luck!
2006-08-17 11:07:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ejoy her being here...and, try harder to keep in touch with her...with cards, internet, phone calls etc. be thankfult that you have a sister you care so much about. I think you'll find someone and get married one day too..good luck..
2006-08-17 10:51:33 · answer #8 · answered by Winters child 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
email,snail mail
2006-08-17 10:51:04 · answer #9 · answered by bill a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slap yourself onn your butt with a noodle and scream.
2006-08-17 10:50:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋