my BF of two years wants a threesome. I would like it too, but am afraid it will make our relationship weird....thoughts?
2006-08-17 03:39:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Introducing a relationship to polygamy is fraught with problems including trust, self esteem, etc. You risk eroding the fundamental principles of the relationship itself. Some people can make an open lifestyle work for their relationship. However, both people have to be brought into it strongly and both people have to be secure in their love, trust and sexuality.
2006-08-18 19:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ive had a few... SO MUCH FUN! As long as you and your partner have ZERO trust issues and you both completely trust eachother and neither of you has EVER cheated on eachother, then you two will be fine. threesomes require TONS AND TONS of trust. Just use protection and have fun! Goodluck
2006-08-17 03:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
does he want another women or man if he wants a women then only say yes if you can do it with two men first see what his reaction is cos if he says no then all he is after is his own sexual gratfication if he says ok then i say go for it but only if your sure that threesomes is something you can both handle if it goes wrong
2006-08-17 04:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by dollythesheep100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've done it Twice but dont recommend it unless you have a really strong relationship with your boyfriend.
I done it once with another girl
then once with another guy. (neither guy touched each other OK)
Ive also swapped partners with my best mate. (That wasnt a good idea) My mates bloke and my bloke ended up fighting a few days later. why do men have to do that. It was cool with me and my mate with what had happened
2006-08-17 03:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must have a large amount of trust int he realtionship...otherwise...it will be a horrible experince for you as a woman.
2006-08-17 03:50:41 · answer #5 · answered by ALWAYS PRIORITY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself how jelous you both are. If the levels are high, don't do it - it'll ruin your relationship.
2006-08-17 03:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by Tatt M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call me if your BF don't mind two men a u
2006-08-17 03:46:36 · answer #7 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with a little extra food on your plate!
2006-08-17 04:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by chris a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be fun. as long as both of u dont have any hang ups
2006-08-17 03:48:09 · answer #9 · answered by fallen angel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
.....the only way is...do it and find it out!
2006-08-17 03:46:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋