I had a baby and all I want to do is to hurt the baby. HELP... the feelings of depression or anxiety continue more than three weeks after delivery. My Husband does not want to have sex me after I had a baby so I am blaming the baby!! This is my last post:
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2006-08-17 03:37:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
You really need to see a doctor! Ever hear of Andrea Yates??
And, stay away from Tom Cruise! Good luck in getting better!
2006-08-17 03:42:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make an appointment with the doctor and ask a good female friend/relative to come and sit with you while you are feeling like this, if the worst came to the worst at least they would be there to protect the baby from you. Go to the doctor, stop wasting time and go now, they can help you.
2006-08-17 10:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get someone to sit with the baby and go to the Dr. right now---You are in desperate need for treatment--Talk to the psych about what you're feeling and they will prescribe some meds 4 u. Don't sit around and waste time, this is a very serious issue.
2006-08-17 11:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by BK1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get help! Think you're depressed now, wait until you hurt the kid. Take vitamins, especially B vitamins and get some exercise. This will help you feel better and get you into shape. Maybe you have a friend or relative who can help out? You need to see a doctor. Remember why you wanted that kid.
2006-08-19 15:33:48 · answer #4 · answered by Jenifer S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET HELP NOW! For you and your baby. You need to see a doctor and a counselor. They can help you get treatment for this. Post again so that we will now your ok and getting help. You have taken the step to seek help, take the next step and get it from a trained professonal. Call 1-800-944-4773. It is a post partum depression hotline. Take care of yourself and may God ehlp you through this tough time in your life.
2006-08-17 11:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by Charles B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your doctor TODAY and tell him/her. There is medication for that, and there is no reason for you to be suffering. I had the same problem, but my mistake was not doing anything about it, and I regret it. It's not too late for you. I'm sorry your husband is being difficult, but he's a man and DOES NOT understand what it's like. Take care of yourself and your baby first, and the rest will fall into place.
2006-08-17 10:46:03 · answer #6 · answered by S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really need to find people you can trust and vent with. This is really important, as that will allow you to focus your energy on positive actions instead of focusing it negatively onto the baby. Your husband should be with you at all times to support you... are you sure he's not depressed too? Check with him!
2006-08-17 11:15:18 · answer #7 · answered by Kookoo Bananas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to consult a shrink. or any close and caring friend can drill into your mind the rational thinking about life after delivery of the child.also start loving your child and it will come back to you in the form of love from your husband and he will like and long to have sex with you.
2006-08-17 10:53:33 · answer #8 · answered by DEAR T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to have people around you all the time. it's serious and you can also see a doctor to get some help. you're not supposed to have sex until six weeks after you have the kid anyway. just talk to him or tie him down.
2006-08-17 10:43:31 · answer #9 · answered by Jaycie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a doctor IMMEDIATELY and get some antidepressants and some talk therapy going. Maybe couples therapy for you and your husband.
You are a danger to your baby if you don't get help right away.
2006-08-17 10:44:45 · answer #10 · answered by rkallaca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋