I Love my boyfriend but is there's this guy that always want me to be his girl friend, i told him that i already have. whenever he's with me i have this feelings and when he touches me i feel like making love with him but with my boyfriend i don't feel that way but i love him(my boyfriend) more that i like the other guy.
this is my real story, pls help
2006-08-17 03:36:33 · 29 answers · asked by baby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is a difference between loving and being in love. You might love your bf so much but the fact that this other guy is wanting to be with you is probably making you feel wanted. Maybe hes doing things your current bf does not do. Maybe you guys are not communicating enough so wat you dont get from your bf you are gettin else where which makes you feel comfort. I've been in the same situation, where I have my bf but then kinda felt something else for this other guy. But then I realize that I love my bf more than anything. If ur bf is a good man, keep him dont leave him. Theres a quotes that says, " dont leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love" Its true, been there before. =/
2006-08-17 03:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you love your boyfriend, perhaps you should stay away from this other guy. And maybe you shouldn't be letting this other guy touch you.
It seems to me like he doesn't respect you if he keeps bugging you about being his girlfriend, knowing that you already have a boyfriend. He is too persistent which is the first sign of an abuser.
What's happening here is, you are being tried. You have two pathways in your life. Which one are you going to go down? Do you want to be happy in the future and have experience with "LOVE" so that when marriage comes up, you'll know you're marrying the right one because you have a record of picking the right men you have dated in the past? OR ...
Will you pick the path of getting sucked into abusive relationships where you're the one who's always contributing to the relationship and the guy is lazy and becomes verbally abusive with his mouth and attitude? Those kind are always persistent from the beginning and will say anything to laurel the girl in with flattery. And as soon as the girl gives in, this kind of man will begin to control her until she starts to believe she can't live without him. Then she's stuck with a jerk.
2006-08-17 04:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then keep away from the other guy. Being in contact with the other guy is going to cause problems. Eventually you will forget these feelings for the other guy. Its not fair on either of them to do what you are doing. In the end you will be come so confused and unhappy and wont be able to decide what you really want
2006-08-17 03:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your emotions are just mixed up. I dont know if you have known this other guy longer than your boyfriend but if you have then there is already a connection there whether you know it or not. Yes you love your boyfriend but there's that "hidden" love for this other guy. Just remember this never leave the one you love for the one you like.
2006-08-17 03:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by Midnight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your attraction is purely phisical. You just want to get in his pants. The feeling is completely normal. You love your boyfriend but it is more respect that you have for him, and with the other guy is purely phisical. I suggest you don't mess your relationship up with your boyfriend because if you do something and he finds out you'll e stuck in the wrong relationship. Nachooooooooooooooo
2006-08-17 03:48:28 · answer #5 · answered by Devilz Backbone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love your boyfriend because he's there for you or because you feel that you'd chose him over any other man in the world if they all loved you to death?
Because I think you may just be used to having your boyfriend around and that's nice, but you have to consider what you really want. You have to actively love someone. You have to want grab someone and pull their lips to yours. Or go halfway around the world just so that you can surprise them on their doorstep while they are still in pyjamas.
2006-08-17 03:43:52 · answer #6 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those electric touches can be very misleading. He probably does that with every woman he gets the opportunity to touch. Whichever way, you know him better than us. Follow your heart but remember that you love your boyfriend and you cannot let in all comers with electric touch.
2006-08-17 03:42:19 · answer #7 · answered by kombo6m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't leave the one u love for the one u like cause the one u like will leave u for the one they love & the one u love wont take u back.your just in the need of sudden change.your a 1 time thing person not so much as a marriage person.
2006-08-17 03:47:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the guys that have made me feel that way were guys that weren't my bf and guys I didn't even love. I dont really understand it myself. I couldn't understand why I would feel this sexual chemistry yet I didn't want to be their gf. I guess it just chemistry.
2006-08-17 03:43:29 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from that other guy and tell your boyfriend about what is going on. Your boyfriend has a right to know and don't talk to that other guy!
2006-08-17 03:41:59 · answer #10 · answered by Sapphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋