The day He asked me out and I said yes it was at like 11 at night and we were sitting out in front of my garage and He took his cell phone out and started deleting people and I said what are you doing and he said "deleting all the girls" and i said No, dont.. you dont have too and he said "no baby, i want too ok?" and I said fine.. So, than last night he called me and we were talking and he was like "i know you just got out of a bad relationship but im not good at taking hints on if you want me to do something" and I said kay i want to wait and he said "okay thats completly fine, im not pressuring you or anything i just might need a little heads up when you want too" so i said alright. He tells all his friends about me, he introduces me to everyone as his "beautiful girlfriend" and he looks me in the eyes and tells me he loves me && i just melt..
So does he really really care about me? Or is this some joke to get in my pants than leave me? Or what you think hes feeling??
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2006-08-17 03:30:48 · 27 answers · asked by STFUbeezy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well the guys when have a break up take some time to recover before they go out again. But it doesnt seems to be the case here. This is just a trick to get a girl to bed and you are falling for it. Just be cautious and if you feel he is too fast or acting smart walkout.
2006-08-17 03:37:08 · answer #1 · answered by Coolguy_punjabi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could really care for you and is willing to do anything for his relationship with you. There are men like that out there somewhere. But, he could also being doing this like you said just to get in your pants so just wait for a few months (if you can) and see how everything goes if he "tries" to get in your pants don't let him and see how his attitude gets. If he gets all upset and after a few times of doing this he decides the relationship isn't worth having then that is your sign that he wasn't worth it. Sex shouldn't be the only thing holding a relationship together.
2006-08-17 03:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by Midnight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is needy and probably controling as well........... he deleted those girls out of his cell phone as a sign of good faith and to impress you. He is showing you off because he claiming his territory... and you should be careful..... he sounds very charming and probably has the looks to go with it, so I can see why you melt.......... according to your question, you and him haven't been dating long at all......... and he is already saying 'I love you'? This is a sign of BE CAREFULL!!!! it sounds to me like you may want to step back and really slow things down with this guy and don't be official gf and bf just yet, meet other people and hang out with other guys while you and him REALLY get to know eachother......... I would be on guard, you could end up hurt. But keep him close, because he could be lagit......... I wouldn't have sex for a little while with him yet....... I would wait a couple months, for sure. Blessed be.........
2006-08-17 03:41:11 · answer #3 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is the es-sense! You will find out if this guy likes or loves you by watching how he expresses himself towards you. When he shows he cares and respects your feelings, on a every day basis, that's usually a good sign. Give it time and don't rush to get intimate with him. Love will only grow, if he's the real thing. Cocoa
2006-08-17 03:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he does care about you, but this deleting numbers in his phone does seem a bit strange. However, it may just be a gesture to show that he wants to make himself exclusive to you.
It's great that he wants to move at your pace, so do just that. Take things nice and slow, and if you feel things are moving too fast, make sure you tell him, and make sure that he does the same.
Good luck with your new relationship.
2006-08-17 03:42:39 · answer #5 · answered by Dawn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to tell just like that, of course. But from what you tell us it seems to me he is sensitive to your needs and does not pressure you, so that's a good sign. Like you, I have a weird feeling about him so demonstratively deleting the girls from his mobile, that was unnecessary because it constitutes no guarantee whatsoever, nor should it mean to do so. But maybe it was just a clumsy effort to show you his earnestness.
If you want to know whether he just wants to get into your pants, don't let him and see what happens.
2006-08-17 03:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, don't let him get away! It is completely obvious that he does love you. He is thinking of you by asking you to let him know when you are ready, so there is no way he is just trying to get in your pants. You definately should try to get past the past and start trying to make a future with a man that wants you. What you got is what every woman wants, so make sure you hold on to it!
2006-08-17 03:41:04 · answer #7 · answered by str8tequila80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be careful. Don't overly trust him unless you know him for longer time and from head to foot. A guy can do everything, anything just to impress a girl he wants to lay down, afterwards to be left alone. But then, he could realy be serious about you, so use your woman's instinct, be careful but don't let him feel being untrusted. Your life and future depends on it.
2006-08-17 03:41:08 · answer #8 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him too? I think he can be honest with you, and if you really love each other, I believe it can be a more lasting and deep relationship than just sex. Try trust in him for a start, you will see the outcome in time.
2006-08-17 03:47:10 · answer #9 · answered by Danny B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi he seems quite genuine to me i think he really luvs u . he even looked into ur eyes and says he luvs u . i dnt think he would lie. its a big deal for a guy to introduce his gf to his frnds so sweetly i think ur being too worried and suspicious . give it some time if u still have a problem i think u should talk to him directly .u should never be too suspicious coz u may lose him . if u still have a problem im always there
2006-08-17 03:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by cupid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋