I have just signed up to 4dating.com and have seen some girls on there that I wanna get to know. But I have no idea what to say to them. You message them on the website and they can respond. I want to make a good first impression but have no idea what to say to her/them.
Ideas would be greatly appreciated.
2006-08-17 03:27:28 · 7 answers · asked by Rockhead 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try to look in her profile for things you have in common. For example, if you live near here or if you share the same taste in music. Open with that because its a good way to start a conversation. Try to avoid saying things like "I like your picture" or commenting on her looks just yet because unfortunately that might make her think you just interested in her for one reason. Just be yourself, ask if she's having a good week so far or has any plans for the weekend. The key is to start a conversation with her. No chessy lines or compliemtns... just be yourself and get to know her.
2006-08-17 04:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The unfortunate things about first impressions is you only get one shot! Rule one be yourself. It's you that they want to know about. And probably are just as nervous as you are. Try just what I've stated. "The unfortunate thing about first impressions is you only get one chance. Already you've made a great impression on me and I am hoping I can get the chance to reciprocate." Maybe add a little humor or a question. "Are you as nervous about this as I am?" or " Are you as beautiful as in your picture because I am still working on finding my good side." Important part is just to start the conversation process. Good luck!
2006-08-17 10:42:35 · answer #2 · answered by Mark S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first txt msg I recieved from my partner was." I want to sleep with you and cant stop thinking about making love to you." Try it it worked for him and were still together two and a half years later
2006-08-17 18:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remark upon something they said in their profile. Individualized responses are always better than "Hey." Even if it's something small like "Hey I have a dog too..." I ignored responses that were not personalized to me or my profile.
2006-08-17 10:34:54 · answer #4 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well start with hello ask her... what she likes...if she plays any sports...what will she do for a living...where shes from
2006-08-17 10:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by ~*~Sweets~*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start with hello and tell them you would like to get to know them better then add a little about yourself. tell her if she would like to get to know you better to answer you.
2006-08-17 10:59:13 · answer #6 · answered by mrst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try...."how do I know your not a pervert"
2006-08-17 11:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋