My boyfriend has very needy friends...his phone is constantly ringing off the hook and his house is like Grand Central Station...people are always in and out. I don't really mind because we both have the same basic circle of friends and I get along with all his good friends, but its frustrating when I want to be alone with him.
So the other day we were alone and started having sex. The phone rings while I'm on top so he stops me and asks me to check the phone to see who it is! Neither of us knew the number so he took the phone and asked if he should answer it... I'm still sitting on top this whole time! I almost freaked out but I just said 'put the frigg*n phone down' and we laughd about it. After we were done, I told him how pissd I would have been if he had answered it and he apologizd so it was ok. But that has never happened to me before and it still kinda irritates me when I think about it. Has it ever happened to u? Did you get pissed? What did u do? 10 pts for funniest story
2006-08-17 03:24:58 · 29 answers · asked by Hypnotiq 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since he apologized I'm definitley not pissed I got over it really quickly. I think its funny now, I just want to see how many girls have had this happen and what they did.
2006-08-17 03:26:21 · update #1
Don't feel bad about thinking its funny, I think its hilarious
2006-08-17 03:32:54 · update #2
I wasn't furious because he didn't answer the phone and that never happened before and it hasn't happened since, so don't worry I don't feel disrespected lol.
2006-08-17 03:35:10 · update #3
I was in a similar situation with my ex-husband. I was on top, we were really into it. His cell rings and he answered it!!! I got p*ssed. So I climbed off, grabbed his phone (in the middle of his conversation), and went to the window. I ripped out the screen and threw the d*mn phone out the third floor window (we were in a hotel on vacation). Well, it fell in the pool outside. It was ruined and he was charged on his credit card for the damaged screen. Was I overreacting? Come to find out I wasn't since it was one of his (girl) buddies, who was actually more than just a friend.
2006-08-17 03:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by T.G. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey girl! things like his happens often. I've been with my husband since I was 17. Here goes one for you. When we were dating he had a lot of people coming in and out of his apartment and one night we were busy and the phone rings he did'nt even stop for a minute, he answers the phone and it was his roommate. He talks to him for a couple of minutes and hangs up and continues with what we were doing. Well about 5 minutes later he hears a car door and jumps up and trips over the t.v. cord and knocks the t.v. off the stand. It was one of the neighbors and he comes back a like nothing happened continues on his way. Later after all is said and done we found out that when he knocked over the t.v. that it had broke. It was his roommates. Well he tells his roommate the whole story and I thought I was going to die of embrassment. At the time I was really pissed but years later I can laugh. Next time just give him a taste of his own medicine. Do the same to him. And as for spending time alone with him. Put a sign on the door that says something like "GONE FISHING" or "WE ARE HAVING SEX COME BACK TOMORROW" good luck and keep laughing.
2006-08-17 10:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by lighthouse lover 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Deary, my best friend is married to a man just like this. It might be cute now, but if it works out between you two, or you find yourself with a child (like my best friend who has two now) its going to get really really annoying.
She cant even get a second alone with him without him answering the phone, or peolpe stopping by, someone needing a ride, a band member who has to put together the next show, a studio calling to cancel this or change that, and worst of all friends who just need five bucks.
Her babies go without formula because he spends all their money on his friends, and he's never there so she's totally alone through all her pregnanies, working her *** off to some how pay the bills and pay for all the meals his friends eat, all the phone bills for having to talk to them....
In the begining she loved it and it felt like one big family, but after a while it got really really old.
I just hope you enjoy it while you can. I would never put up with that bullcrap.
2006-08-17 10:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its not your boyfriend's fault the phone rang. He should have just ignored it completely but the fact that he was not worried about answering is good. You should make a deal with him that next time you both ignore it completely no matter what. Even if it rings repeatedly. In fact, maybe you could agree to lock the doors, and turn off the ringers. Its not that long - his friends can live without him for that time.
2006-08-17 10:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by Ann 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a similar problem, but instead of it being his needy friends, its my obsessive "where are you" needy dad. Its really frustrating and annoying because, if i don't answer the first or second time he calls, he'll just keep calling over and over again. So obviously, my dad's called me once when we were having sex, and i was on top, my boyfriend, was like go ahead and answer it so he'll shut up. So when i did, and i started talking to my dad, my boyfriend thought that it would be hilarious to make me nice and uncomfortable by moving inside me. I literally had to jump off of him, and pretend like nothing was wrong talking to my dad. I was sooo mad. top that, lol.
2006-08-17 10:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by JJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ive had something similiar happen. My ex had the exact same thing goin on.....and I was fustrated and already talked to him about it, but the stuff kept happening and it happened while we were having sex one day and I was on bottom and he answered...he kept having sex with me while talking tellin me to shush....but I had it in store for him I didnt shush I moaned as loud as I could the whole time.....him embarrassed he got off the phone within 5 minutes looking pissed telling me that it was his boss....I laughed so hard at him and told him thats how a bit of your own medicine taste!!! Needless to say he quit having sex with me at that very moment, but I was completely satisfyed regardless cause I had taken revenge and he quit having so many phone calls and such to spend a little more time with me.
2006-08-17 10:33:43 · answer #6 · answered by lildevilchild_87 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well my Bf has needy FAMILY, one time he and i where in our own room and his mom kept knocking on the door, No she did not live there, she let herself in the house. well when we did not answer the door she decided to leave... about 5 mins later she calles.... so thinking that somthing is wrong with her we answer the phone and all that she wanted was to know what we where doing... DUH!!! i mean i love his family but OMG his mom is somthing else.
So i understand where your comming from... good luck, and hang in there everything will be ok. Try turning off the phone when the 2 of you want to be together. and lock the doors!!! LOL
2006-08-17 10:37:56 · answer #7 · answered by sexy momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened to me once. I was on top of my ex and we were going at it. His phone rings and he all but throws me off of him to grab it. By the time he got to the phone it stopped ringing so he f*ck it and layed back down. So I got back on top of him and we start going agian, then his phone rings again. He goes to throw me off agian. This time as he did it I hooked my legs around him and pushed him back on the bed. I told him if he threw me off again that he was going to be becoming best friends with his hand for the next week. He looked at me like I was crazy and i told him i was serious. So he didnt get up. So by the time the phone rang for the 3rd time he was on top. He got up to go answer the phone and as he did i took my vibratting dildo outta his nightstand drawer and thro it at the back of his head. It smaked him right in the back of his head and he looked so shocked that I had thrown the fake d!ck at him that I started laughing histarically, I couldnt stop laughing finally he started laughing too. Ill tell you what he never answered the phone during sex again. lol
2006-08-17 10:36:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few years back, my ex and I were in the middle of things and his phone rang while he was hittin it from the back. Can you believe he answered! I got mad but not to much because it was kinda a turn on! So I just started makin more noise and he got off the phone!
2006-08-17 10:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by Blondie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well for one, l don't care who was calling, if lm in the middle of making love or having sex, sorry, the phone or door bell is the last thing lm going to answer or get up for..seems to me, he wasnt to excited about you being on top,or he would have not answered the ephone.
2006-08-17 10:36:27 · answer #10 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋