ur b/friend and u break up after an intense loving relationship...he has issues to deal with! u get back together and break up again it's completely over! u go away for 2 months and come back to find everything has changed.. u see him and u dont ever speak about the past.. he is the type of guy who doesn't chase, other people have to make things happen whilst he sits back. thenall of the sudden he goes looking for your car so he can find you because he just had to see you...u end up having the most awesome evening together and he confesses he still loves you and never stopped...how would that make u feel, HAPPY or freaked out...advoce please
2006-08-17 03:18:19 · 20 answers · asked by ladeee lindel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love can really someone do crazy things, but it can also change someone completely. Give him another chance, see if he really changed=)
2006-08-17 03:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how you feel about him. you've not mentioned that. If you're in love with him too, then chances are you're going to feel pretty happy that he feels the same. If you're not in love with him and went away to try to get over the relationship, then you'll probably be quite annoyed that you've come back and he wants you still.
I'd say the main thing you would feel above anything else is confusion!!!
Sounds like this guy doesn't know what he wants and he is being quite selfish. he can't keep breaking things off then trying to start then up again - he's being selfish and making it impossible for you to get on with your life. My advice to you is think long and hard about what you want and how you feel. If you want him too then go for it and try to make it work but be prepared for him . If you don't want him, explain to him then get on with your life. If you're not sure what you want then you need time to think it over so ask him to give you space.
If it were me I wouldn't waste my time with this guy. Too selfish.
2006-08-17 11:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends- do you love him? If you do then reconsider being back with him but he seems like a guy that is not sure of what he wants and this may be a big problem in the future.
2006-08-17 10:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would feel very confused
and maybe a bit anxious
i think what you need to do is meet up with him again
somewhere where you can talk
and try and figure out why you broke up them times?
and what issues you have with eacthother and see if you can work them out between you both.
good luck x
2006-08-17 10:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by XxXxPinkPrincessxXxX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See: "passive aggressive behavior" and Narcissistic Personality Disorder before you go any further.
2006-08-17 10:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id be Confused probably but if still might love him then get together with him! hope everything works outs ok for you!
2006-08-17 10:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by poppy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say, be careful and don't let him rush you. Yes, you love him, but remember that you should love yourself a little bit more. From what you say he sounds a little manipulative ... manipulative people wreck your head.
2006-08-17 10:29:17 · answer #7 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's wonderful. Distants makes the heart grows fonder.
2006-08-17 10:26:57 · answer #8 · answered by Yoruba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I'd be happy, I would also realize that he still has "issues" and until those are resolved, I would be friends w/o benefits.
2006-08-17 10:24:46 · answer #9 · answered by pamspraises 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN! He know you won't say know and he'll keep coming abck to you as long as you'll have him, don't be a silly girl, go get someone who actually gives a ****.
2006-08-17 10:23:28 · answer #10 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋