....or is it that they just don't try hard enough to please?
2006-08-17 03:06:54 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good question...and i'll say this...I've heard that girls usually wanna date bad boys but marry nice/good guys.
2006-08-17 03:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by USC Fan 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off if you are one of the nice guys, make sure you are happy with yourself, please yourself first. If you like yourself and show confidence that is what attracts the women. Once you know who you are and what you want things usually turn out for the best. Most nice guys spend so much time trying to make others happy they end up being miserable and that shows in a relationship and women can only handle so much of that before they take off and head out. Nice guys can be strong guys too. Just takes some work. Also this applies to women as well, there are two sides to every coin.
2006-08-17 10:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody keeps asking this question. Ever wonder if there are other reasons besides being nice that is causing you to finish last ?? I'm nice too. Sometimes I finish last but most of the time I'm on top. I dont think being nice is the problem. I think its the way you become around certain people that causes your problems.
2006-08-17 10:13:14 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the mentality and age of the guy. The younger ones tend to be more selfish and just want to finish, while good lovers aren't satisfied themselves unless the woman is, too. If the guy is in tune with his girl's needs he will do everything he can to make sure SHE'S satisfied. If not, he's not worth keeping around.
2006-08-17 10:12:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, most women can appreciate a nice guy. I think it is just important that when a nice guy likes a girl that he doesn't go overboard then not try hard enough after he has her!
2006-08-17 10:10:08 · answer #5 · answered by Femme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, I used to have this really nice guy friend, who would have made the perfect boyfriend and I tried setting him up with some friends. Unfortunately, it never worked out for one reason or another. Then like five years later I wondered why I had never given him a chance it was so obvious that he was into me. Crazy, huh! I guess I'll never know.
2006-08-17 10:11:53 · answer #6 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They finish last cause after we're done dealing with jerks, we discover the nice guys. Usually later in life!
2006-08-17 10:11:57 · answer #7 · answered by animal_mother 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys are hard to find because they don't stick out. When you find a nice guy, he might be a little too nice for what you want or might not know that you may want him to be a little bad.
2006-08-17 10:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by The Princess of Pleasure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys are marriage material. You should be proud. A nice girl that appreciates that will come your way soon. Don't change. Be yourself.
2006-08-17 10:12:27 · answer #9 · answered by High on Life!!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No most girls I know like our guy a little bad when we are younger but when we are ready to settle with a guy forever we want one of the good guys
2006-08-17 10:11:45 · answer #10 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most nice guys don't go for what they want..that's why they seem to finish last a lot.
2006-08-17 10:10:43 · answer #11 · answered by attila 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋