tell you bf/gf that you were thinking of cheating on them. Let me explain, i love my boyfriend, he is that one for me, but sometimes he is not attentive enough and there are just things that he lacks sometimes, but im not leaving him, or at least i dont want to, anyway because i tell him everything, i think i should tell him that there is this other guy who is interested, i dont know if i am yet, but it might go somewhere, what should i do, should i tell him?
2006-08-17 02:50:05 · 15 answers · asked by SHE HATE ME 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I would tell him how your feeling and how his lack of attentivenes might be the cause for it. Let him know what's going on and that you are on the edge of dealing with "cheating".
2006-08-17 02:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by shae 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The bottom line....if you tell him "I might cheat on you" that's just playing games. There is no reason to cheat on someone. If you are attracted to someone else, then you are not as in love as you think. If you are even contemplating cheating, then you are not as in love as you think. As corny as it is, there really is something to that song "I only have eyes for you". I can see a guy as handsome, or good looking, but I have not found anyone else attractive since becoming involved with my now husband. That is what love is.....noone else matters (unless you have kids). Seriously.....don't threaten as a means to get him to pay more attention to you......it will only piss him off and push him away. Good luck!
2006-08-17 10:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by mcnees79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are considering cheating- Just leave him. Let him move on with his life. Obviously as hard as this may seem to hear... You dont love him as much as you think you do if you are wanting to cheat. Once a cheater, always a cheater. So if you go down that path, you will lose this man you claim to love. I truly love my husband and WOULD NEVER sleep with another man. That is love.
2006-08-17 09:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omgsh im in the same situation my b/f he just wants me for show i guess he wants to take me to parties and to the movies or walk around in school with him so his friends can see what he pulled.. then whe. i get home he doesnt call he doesnt come see me but he says he is busy at practice but he loves me so he says i love him i know i do but then there are many other guys always talking to me who say if i was there's they give me the world so i get tempted with many of them but i would never tell my b/f because i know he wouldnt trust me anymore then he we just start assuming things when i hang out with my male friends hopes this helps some
2006-08-17 10:35:58 · answer #4 · answered by Mz.Man_St3aler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell hi. It will upset him and ruin the trust he has in you. Also, don't cheat! You say he is the one for you, so accept him as he is. you aren't going to find everything you want in one person.
2006-08-17 09:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cheating on someone you love? HAH thats not love thats just called "using". dont do it so you dont have to tell him about it. just tell him your feelings of why you feel that he is not "attentive" enough
2006-08-17 09:55:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u want to give him an x-sample........ like this
You: Hi ( name)..... guess what happened to a co-worker(friend)?
him: What?
u: she left her man of (how ever many yrs) because he wasn't paying attention to her and some guy got her attention..... it's so sad that some guy dont take care of there girls..... " I hope We never get to that"........
then see what he says.....
2006-08-17 09:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not tell him. you say you love him, so why would you want to hurt him? either break up with him or be faithful. talk to him and tell him what you need. if he still neglects your needs, move on.
you should not have sex until after you are married.
2006-08-17 10:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by HazelEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I sure hope you dont tell him!you tell him everything but that one guy.I always think HONESTY id the first step to a relationship.But im afraid he will eave you if you tell him so whatever you do dont tell him!
2006-08-17 09:57:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i told my husband one time that i was having feelings for someone else, We have great communication, we talked about why i was having feelings for this other guy, and no i didnt act on it but it made hubby aware of issues we were having and perked up his attentiveness to me,
2006-08-17 09:55:42 · answer #10 · answered by dragonflies_42 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋