we dated casually on and off since last year and early this year. then he joined the marines which is something he always wanted to do. before he left he said he met someone else but that it mite not work out n that he still likes me! this other girl is in the navy as well so she is everywhere he is. part of me feels that he is just with her because he is lonely and he is away so it wouldnt work out with me. and he say's he wants to stay in my life and be friends but wen i asked if he wanted to meet up the other day before he went back to the marines, he said yes but i havent heard from him since a few days ago. what is going on? do u think that he likes me?
2006-08-17 02:13:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he needs to figure out what he wants and quit playing games with you, If he can't make up his mind, then move on with your life.
2006-08-17 02:18:29 · answer #1 · answered by mightymight 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My honest and heartfelt answer is that he's probably noticing that he can't have everything in life at the same time ... sucks to be a marine at this particular moment ... he probably really really likes you and knows it's bad to you if he keeps playing around and looking for you, but, at the same time he won't say NO if you look for him, because, he can't resist you.
I really wouldn't be worried about the marine girl ... if anything she's really a backup girl ... really sounds harsh on the 2nd girl, but, honestly I went through something similar and would never contact the original girl, but, when she called me it was like the world stop in that moment and would do anything to see her.
I might be completely off, but, hope is something one must never give up on and who knows what lies ahead. Just know that if you really want to be with this guy, just tell him you'll wait for him if he promises to come back to you.
2006-08-17 09:22:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because he is testing you, he doesnt want to let you go on the off chance he doesnt find anyone else, but if/when he does you are on the back burner, my guess is he is using you to get what he wants, give him the flick and find someone that will like you for you.
2006-08-17 09:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well sweetheart..i just recently went through this with my fiance..he's in the Us Army Infantry stationed in Fort Stewart..there is a girl down there that like my fiance..and with me being away..they got him drunk and filled his head with lies..we ended up breaking up until the next morning..when he realized what was going on..now he no longer talks to those girls and guys...and have new friends..and our relationship is stronger then ever...things if there ment to be they'll work out for ya
2006-08-17 09:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is keeping you on the back burner. If it doesn't work out with her like he said, then he can have you. Don't fall for it. If you wait for him like a little puppy he will never respect you.
2006-08-17 09:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably isn't seriously interested in you and not prepared for commitment in a partnership.
Turn the page, and find some one else.
Much good luck.
2006-08-17 09:19:04 · answer #6 · answered by David R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfotunatley CAKE AND EAT IT springs to mind.....he likes you around but doesnt want the commitment, but on the flipside doesnt want to see you with another guy......my advise go get another cuter, hotter guy than him and just wait to see his reaction :)
2006-08-17 09:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by sassy_martin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he's just stringing you along, just in case it doesn't work out with the other girl.
2006-08-17 09:20:19 · answer #8 · answered by SpittinThaReal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just get over him and get on with your own life because he is just using you as you are sitting waiting for him to phone he is probably with someone else
2006-08-17 09:20:15 · answer #9 · answered by Tracy B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him go babe,if he was genuine he would have made time for you.Sounds like he's confused and dosent know what he wants,so move on babe.
2006-08-17 09:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋