I'v met this guy in a chat room a few weeks ago and we have been chatting and contacting each other ever since. He is in London and will be coming to my country in December. He has said that he would love to meet up with me, and I know how dangerous things like this can be, but he seems really honest. What should I do????
2006-08-17 02:04:39 · 17 answers · asked by LoveAngel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him alot more and when ya'll think you're ready to meet up ask him to bring a friend and u will too. Thats ur best bet. Instead of just bringing someone with u to be a third wheel, plus he might feel like u don't really trust him. Which u don't... but u don't want him to know that, lol.
2006-08-17 02:25:44 · answer #1 · answered by Quin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 00:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be very very careful. you probably aren't falling for him anyways but just the thought of him. you can find someone a little closer to home that will give you the same thing that's attracting you to this guy. I don't believe that you can fall for a guy that you've never met. BUT i have met people online, not loved them or anything, but talked and wound up meeting and I've never had a problem. Just be safe. Tell friends where you are going and that you are meeting this guy. Always go to someplace public and preferably during the day. Have fun and enjoy:)
2006-08-17 02:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by dosethatmakemecrazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experience, perhaps i'm lucky i never met up with any pervert so far, but that doesn't mean we should go and meet a stranger alone, especially if the meeting takes place in the evening or night time, i would advise you to meet him with a gf...
Falling for a guy over a phone, hm...i hate to admit, i do feel that way too during my younger days...actually its infatuation, till you saw that person, you will be disappointed and eventually you won't even want to keep in contact with him anymore..that's me last time. hehe...
Seriously i been in relationship with more than 5 chat line or internet guys...all bastards...all my gfs feel the same as me too...So don't put too much hope on this kind of guys..they just wanna have fun..
2006-08-17 02:14:39 · answer #4 · answered by barelyahrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say to be very careful and to get as much background information on him as possible. I'm sure you see the news and what can happen. There are a lot of freaks out there and you really need to be careful. It's like you said, you know how dangerous things like this can be so you need to be very cautious. Oh, and anyone can sound so nice, honest and trustworthy over the internet because they want to gain your trust. Don't give in too soon.
2006-08-17 02:13:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the guy on his phone first and then meet up.. also when u do meet up for the first time meet in a public place.. n then u can determine if he's trustworthy r not.. hope it works out well between u two
2006-08-17 02:09:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet in a public place with chaperone...and shopping with this guy..hehe,and wear the things the he dont like,if u did he might chnage his mind and go back in london,if not hes really serious to u and ur meant for each other...
2006-08-17 02:14:13 · answer #7 · answered by mylene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur like my friend. sh has this recent text mate. They started chatting on there cellphones until one time. They fell in love with each other. My friend haven't met this guy yet!! and that guy hasn't met my fwend yet!! They bcame gf and bf at cellphone. Weird.
2006-08-17 05:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by stickman romance.<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet up with him, bring a friend along and go to a public place like a nice restaurant, then take it from there. This way you'll be safe, and maybe make a nice new friend, or.........mmmmmm sounds like maybe more than a friend! Good luck
2006-08-17 02:10:37 · answer #9 · answered by aggie babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To each their own, I don't trust what people say over the computer, they could be anybody, trying to lure you in, tells you what you want to hear, then they could turn out to be a serial killer. I'm not saying always, but its happened, so be very careful and very cautious
2006-08-17 02:10:23 · answer #10 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋