did ask this girl out who told me that was seeing someone. She claimed that I was too slow in asking her out. Anyways, it turns out that she broke up her boyfriend. She called me that it just occured. I have a feeling that there is room for me. I still have my doubts as to whether to go for it or not. Note: she thinks I have a girlfriend but I really don't I feel like she's want to date me now bcos she just broke the old relationship. I am in a limbo here. please advice me, well meaning yahoo folks. Thanks.
2006-08-17 01:59:02 · 7 answers · asked by hey101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So you were a little slow on the up take well keep doing so. Because if she just broke up with her current boy friend shortly after you asked her out could mean a couple of things 1) she is looking for the bigger better deal in which case she will just use you until something else comes along or 2) she wants to go out with you but you could find yourself in a rebound relationship which seldom lasts and you will only get hurt. So if she really wants to go out with you I recommend it as friends at first until you get a feel for what she really wants. Only fools rush in as the old saying goes. Just becareful that she doesn't have commitment issues and isn't one of those people that bounces from relationship to relationship. Good luck
2006-08-17 02:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her - GO FOR IT. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Sometimes meeting someone is about fate and timing. Maybe then it wasn't suppose to be, maybe now it is?
Life is about taking chances, plain and simple. At least you know if you tried and failed - AT LEAST YOU TRIED.
Fate is an opportunity which you either take or not.
2006-08-17 09:06:57 · answer #2 · answered by Jeffrey S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either *hit, piss or get off the pot. Indescision is the devils advocate. If you like her and you don't have a gf then by all means go for it. If it doesnt work out then you cant say you did not try.
2006-08-17 09:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hay... just call and go out on a date. See what happens. Life doesn't have to be complicated.
2006-08-17 09:06:10 · answer #4 · answered by MrSushiRoll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rebound relationships rarely last,she will date you until her ex wants her back or she finds someone else.She just doesnt want to be alone right now.I suggest you leave this heartache alone and venture elsewhere for your gf.Good luck God bless:O)
2006-08-17 09:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by melissa_froggies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a try, otherwise you will kick yourself later in life for not doing it.
2006-08-17 09:14:03 · answer #6 · answered by ezachowski 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wondering, live now, here, GO!
2006-08-17 09:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by pierre c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋