i'm with someone and i need to build my life i need to know how to live without him and how to move on
2006-08-17 01:56:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if your'e in a bad relationship, you have to get out and do your best not to look back. it takes time for it to heal, and time is the hardest thing to take!!! but, you have to do that if it's what's best and you know that! you will think of good things and good times, but you try to stay busy and do things for yourself to think about it less. it does get easier, but it does take 'time' for that to happen.
2006-08-17 02:04:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self acceptance.. You need to grow your own value from within.
You might have had a bad experience, but if you find true love, then you will not want to be single. When a man marries a woman they become one flesh.. Therefore they become stronger, since both sexes have different talents and ablities. If your in a relationship for selfish reasons, then it will only lead to pain, and misery.. Looking for the right man is the key.. Of course you can be happy single, if you are willing to find fufillement in yourself..
Not all men, are the same.. Their are strong, confident, funny, charismatic, kind, loving, men out there. They are rare, but they exist... To go into a relationship thinking entirely on what you will get, and not on what you will give, will bring destruction.
It seems you just got into the wrong type of man.. But don't give up hope..
2006-08-17 09:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by ۞ JønaŦhan ۞ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very simple...kinda
surround yourself with friends and people who make you feel good, who take your mind off him...out of sight out of mind (for a lil while anyway). then get a job. take up new hobbies. go walking after work. on the weekends, go to a musuem or the beach, or ghost tour, or something. and most importantly DO NOT CALL HIM DO NOT ANSWER HIS CALLS!!!!!! Time is the only cure for this. it will take awhile. it will hurt. but the end will justify the means. and in the end you will be a better person for it. happiness is a journey not a destination. do not jump into another relationship. give yourself some time to work on you. you need to be happy with you before you can be happy with anyone else. you are a woman for a reason. be proud that you alone have this option. be strong!!!!
2006-08-17 09:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
concentrate on taking care of yourself and being good to yourself, eat healthy, drink plenty of water, get rest, exercise, don't smoke or drink alcohol (it's a depressant).
Other than that, take it a day at a time. Know that it will take some time to grieve the end of your hopes and dreams with that person. You will find love again, but there is no rush, take yoiur time.
I just ended a 7 year relationship and I too, am taking it a day at a time. I feel a little better everyday.
Good luck.
Get involved in activities and with people.
2006-08-17 09:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by island3girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're scared, that's all. You can let fear strangle you, or let it motivate you. If you are going to leave him, start out by going to a close friend or relatives house for a while, & rebuild your life from there. One day at a time. Good Luck.
2006-08-17 09:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can,t do with a man because in the begining HE created them; male and female.
2006-08-17 09:04:28 · answer #6 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To move on is easier with love.. do not forget that main principle..
2006-08-17 09:02:37 · answer #7 · answered by glljansen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a good vibe, then you can sit around, maturbate, and eat bon bons all day.
2006-08-17 09:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on yourself, exercise, work, your home, family stay busy! good luck!
2006-08-17 09:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by Lillian Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can find another man
2006-08-17 09:01:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋