in terms of relationships
2006-08-17 01:55:11 · 31 answers · asked by dayokuns 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because they love you unconditionally. And they realize that you love them also so they are much easier when it comes to forgiving you.
2006-08-17 01:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you open yourself up to people that you love. You allow yourself to be vulnerable to the people you love. People hurt other people. That is a fact of life - it is often done unintentionally and unknowingly - we blunder on, without a full awareness of how what we say, what we do, how we act, and hurt feelings, make social mistakes, whatever. Maturity and love allows us to work through these things as long as we are open and caring -- the hurt person has to have the courage to tell the person who hurt them that it took place and then forgive... and the person who did the hurting has to have the compassion to listen and apologize and make amends. When we lack those things, then the hurts get worse and relationships fail.
But cutting yourself off from people because you "may get hurt" is just the wrong thing to do. It gets pretty lonely behind those walls. Embracing life means embracing the good and the bad - and learning from it all to make yourself, over and over, a better person.
2006-08-17 02:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by two 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One's feelings are deeply hurt by the loved ones because in the loved ones you have imposed great faith,trust and loyalty and not to mention unconditional love.You have given a place of great importance to the loved ones in your heart.You believe that the feelings are mutual and they also do the same for you.But when the trust is misplaced and faith betrayed in term of relationship it hurts you feelings more as the person in question is very well known to you whom you have adored and loved. Its more of emotional upheavel in your heart.Love is controlled by your heart and so the feelings are bound to heart you.You wont give a second thought if some unknown person hurts you as you dont have any feelings for them.Only when the heart that rules over love is upset it hurts you mentallyas well.So when the feelings are high during love when it crashes down it is bound to hurt you.
2006-08-17 02:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by rajan kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you do hurt the one you love. It is normal in a relationship specially when you get married but, after-wards do you make-up? if so then it`ll work out but, if you fight to much then just end it or go on a "break" spend time apart and see if you 2 really do love each other
2006-08-17 02:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by flaw236 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because these are the people that you let under your guard the ones you tell secrets dreams and fantasy's to they are the ones with the ammunition to hurt you . But if you don't let down your guard you cant let them in to be there for you so its the risk you have to take. to be loved , and you'll find that the people that truly love you will not hurt you with intent but by accident or thoughtlessness. They will in most cases just use what ammunition you give them to live along side you .
2006-08-17 02:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sticks & stones may break bones, but loved ones will always hurt you.
And you will hurt them.
It comes down to expectations. If you clearly communicate your expectations and totally connect with your loved one, hurtful behavior can be avoided. Good luck with that...you will be the first 2 humans to ever get there.
2006-08-17 02:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by hellsbells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because of the fact the you love them, when their say or do anything, especially, hurtful things, it is much more difficult to bear and it hurts twice as much - that is how love works, in any kind of relationship.
2006-08-17 02:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by aew2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you pin down some un real hopes with the people you love and when those hopes are not fullfilled you get hurt. In other words you are more sensitive with your loved ones that's why you get hurt easily.
2006-08-17 02:04:51 · answer #8 · answered by dua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually people who love you most are also the same ones that can hurt you the most.
Sometimes they may not realize they are doing it.
If someone you love is causing you pain you need to be honest with them and tell them what they are doing and how it's hurting you.
2006-08-17 02:03:22 · answer #9 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and Hate are just opposite sides of the same emotion.... Only when you truly love someone do you have the capacity to hurt them.
2006-08-17 01:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they are the one's who thoughts and feeling matter the most to us. Who care what others think. It's only the one's we love that matter
2006-08-17 02:01:29 · answer #11 · answered by eva c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋