my boyfriend told me that he is attracted to three other than me but he loves me more
can this happen
2006-08-17 01:37:45 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it can happen, especially with past relationships that he hasn't gotten over.
2006-08-17 01:43:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men can be attracted to, and admire more than one woman at a time, women can too. But you can only truly love one woman/man. Because you couldn't truly love them if your hearts also resides with someone else. You know what they say, "A man can't slave for two masters."
2006-08-17 01:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by Snow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love more than 1 person in a brotherly love kind of way but I think that loving a women romantically, there is only enough room to love one. He may love what he can do with three other women or be confusing love with lust for these women but true love....they say one and only for a reason.
2006-08-17 01:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by celebrate life you only get one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes indeed...it happens all the time. Men were never created to be satisfied by only one woman. We need variety. In the ancient more enlightened times, men would have as many women as they could afford.
From what ur boyfriend said, you must be pretty special. He prefers you to the others. Consider urself blessed!
2006-08-17 01:43:25 · answer #4 · answered by Johnny Zero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a man can love only 1 woman and wiseawirsa! also, he can like or be just attracted to another women! but if he is then he doesnt love u! u are just one of them! if he really loved u he could never be attracted to another! love is not a game! it is a very seriuos feeling! but ur boyfriend is playing now in love! do not trust him!
2006-08-17 01:48:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes this is easy for a man, he is programmed to breed with the maximum number of women, however to tell a woman this is exceptionally dumb. But to put it in proportion he is attracted to most women walking down the street who are between 15-35 and can fit into a size 8.
2006-08-17 01:42:27 · answer #6 · answered by brinlarrr 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
personally, i don't think you can give your all to more that one person. somebody is getting cheated out of something one way or the other. the key word here is attracted. he is attracted to three other women. doesn't means he loves them which is good for you but still bad because it is possible that he might cheat with them and share things with them that he is only supposed to be sharing with you and that means he doesn't love you that much if at all.
my suggestion is drop him and find someone that will be attracted to and love only you
2006-08-17 01:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by Kokoa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends....Men can be attracted to multiple women and completely love just one woman. So if he gets involved with any of theses women, or obsesses over them, then that means he doesn't truly love you. You have to be his everything, and if you are not than maybe it's time to dump him. He can't truly LOVE more than one. He can want to bang more than one though.
2006-08-17 01:44:40 · answer #8 · answered by Joe B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that a man can love more than one woman.. If his feelings are true for you, he will only love you... However, I do believe that men can like different woman, because they have different qualities.
We all try to find qualities that we like in someone and sometimes you can't. You find them in different people...
I believe that your boyfriend wants to play the field and wants to make sure you are around for him, when he stops... Don't sell yourself short.. Find someone who has eyes for you and only you..... Good Luck and God bless
2006-08-17 01:43:15 · answer #9 · answered by Torres 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who says you can't love more than 1 person?Can you love more than one boy at the same time.. I'm sure you can mention a 20-or 30... celebs or rock stars.. I'm guessing it is lust though, and not love.. But could you of course...
2006-08-17 01:42:19 · answer #10 · answered by ۞ JønaŦhan ۞ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. You will never find happiness and security within that perverted relationship. No offense, but he's just telling you he likes you more because he wants you to stay with him. Imagine if he tells you he likes you less, will you still like him? He might have said the same thing to the other two women.
2006-08-17 01:50:54 · answer #11 · answered by G K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋