i dont eat **** as you call it,i had a stroke 3 years ago,& a baby,right now i could punch your lights out.how nasty and dam right rude,you must be a really nice person to know NOT!!!!!!!!
2006-08-17 01:15:21 · 16 answers · asked by nikki w 1 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
Err... Ok. Well you've vented, so what question would you like me to answer?
Why are people rude here? I think its mostly because its anonymous and there are no real consequences of it.
2006-08-17 01:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by Caffeine Fiend 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that it has alot to do with the questions content in some cases.I don't know the question that you're referring to in particular so I cannot comment that accurately.
People who come on this forum asking how they can lose 50 pounds in 2 months without exercise deserve a verbal thrashing in my opinion.Sometimes it's just a persons need to feel superior while hiding behind the anonymity of the site.Most people would never have the guts to say some of the things that they say to someones face.It just makes them feel better about themselves to trash other people.Most of these people make themselves out to be fit but some of their answers lack any useful knowledge.I know it's hard but try to ignore the idiots.
I hope you're well now and everything works out.If you need some diet tips etc. Just follow the link to my best answers.Maybe there's something there that will help.I have a feeling that you're British so I'll be even more cordial(my mum's a Brit).Joe
2006-08-17 02:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by joecseko 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd also like to know why people don't follow your link back through to find out who it was that made those comments. Simple, just go to the askers name and you'll see their questions/answers. The guy (bobby t) who answered you is wierd to say the least, he's not worthy of your anger. Remember, a person can only make you feel inferior if you let them, and anger is an inferior emotion. He's very negative, has a lot to say and usually his sort is a talker not a doer, so don't let him get to you.
I'm overweight for reasons I don't have to explain to anyone. I'm unable to go to the gym or eat certain 'healthy' foods. It used to make me feel rotten but now I just tell myself that it's the thin folks who look older, all those lines and wrinkles! I'm told that men prefer women with something to cuddle rather than a stick insect, another bonus. Look on the positive side of life, be proud of what and who you are and never, ever let some stranger you'll never meet make you feel any emotion at all.
Take care x
2006-08-17 01:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by cymbalita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DONT KNOW WHY PEOPLE ARE SO RUDE NOT ONLY ON THE WEB BUT IN PERSON ALSO SOME PEOPLE DONT UNDERSTAND HOW IT FEELS TO BE OVERWEIGHT NOT BEING ABLE TO WEAR CLOTHING U WISH U COULD AND SOME PEOPLE DONT KNOW WAT HEALTHY EATING IS.I USED TO THINK DRINKING FRUIT JUICE WAS THE HEALTHY THING TO DRINK SO I DRANK ABOUT 4 LITRES A DAY I NEVER KNEW THAT THE BODY REGISTERS IT AS SUGAR SO I GAINED ALOT OF WEIGHT AND NEVER KNEW WHY TILL NOW!! HARD TO BELIEVE BUT IT IS TRUE BUT THE PEOPLE I BELIEVE WHO ARE RUDE AND LAUGH AT THE PEOPLE WHO ARE OVERWEIGHT WOULDNT IT BE NICE FOR THEM TO GAIN ALOT OF WEIGHT AND SEE HOW IT IS TO WALK ON THOSE SHOES!!!AND SEE HOW IT FEELS WHOEVER READS THIS TRUST ME PEOPLE WHO R OVERWEIGHT SOMETIMES HAS A METABOLISM PROBLEM OR HAS AN EATING DISORDER OR HAS A THYROID PROBLEM AND THEY DONT HAVE THE ENERGY THAT PEOPLE HAVE WHO R THIN SO THEY R JUST MEAN AND MAYBE SOMEDAY THE FAT ONES WILL GET SKINNY AND THE GIRLS WHO THOUGHT THEY WERE ALL THAT ARENT I LOST 80 LBS AND I HAD A FRIEND TELL ME IF I LOST ANYMORE WEIGHT SHE DIDNT WANT TO BE MY FRIEND ANYMORE CAN U BELIEVE THAT AND ALOT OF MY FRIEND S ARE JEALOUS OF ME CUZ I LOOK BETTER THAN THEY DO SO DONT JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER
2006-08-17 01:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by And life goes on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg i know exactly how you feel.
But i have been a size 18 and a size 6 and i can tell you that at both ends of the scale i got abuse.... some people are just nasty no matter what size you are.
Just as long as you are keeping yourself happy, let them carry on...
It is likely that they are ones that have disordered eating habits, along with low self image, which is why they feel the need to beat up on others.
Take care x
2006-08-17 01:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by n i k k i 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When some people see an overweight person they naturally ASSUME that the person eats all the time, which is assinine. They are just being mean, judgemental and so totally shallow. They dont seem to want to accept the fact that there are medical reasons why a person would be that way. I am with you all the way on this one.
2006-08-17 01:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by shirley e 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are a man? So how has having a baby resulted in you putting on weight?
Just a point of pedantry.
Don't let the bastards wind you up. it's really not worth letting anonymous internet fuckwits get under your skin.
2006-08-17 01:24:14 · answer #7 · answered by fiend_indeed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who what where when!!! what happened!!! calm down lady this is an open forum to the world and although you may or may not be one of the most beautiful women in the world people are still entitled to free speech even if you don't like it.... don't get wound up by bigots and pig's who have no knowledge of how to behave in public... have a cracker day....do you really eat****? that's not right.. lol
2006-08-17 01:22:24 · answer #8 · answered by Noodle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen mate, you have GOT to ignore these people, they are doing it to wind you up and it looks to me they have managed it well.
Dont feed the trolls n all that, just ignore the rude answers and thank the people who answer properly, i read your question and i have never tried weight pills but my mum has and they have never worked for her they made her grumpy and she never slept, some are dangerous like taking speed.
liek i said ignore the b*ankers and good luck!
2006-08-17 01:24:10 · answer #9 · answered by chickL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are haters in every sphere of the world and in every possible connotation ..
Best advice .. do what the rest of us normal people do .. point at them, laugh a little and then carry on enjoying our lives.
On a positive note .. it is nice of them to behave in that way .. means they identify themselves early so we know to avoid them :)
2006-08-17 01:22:20 · answer #10 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋