Okay, here is the situation. This girl i like is 13. I'm 15. She used to be all over me, i mean, we would always do everything together, and we would stay up really late at night, and talk every night. Well anyways, people started talking about it, and she really backed off. So I asked her out, she said I dont know. I thought it was a nice way of saying no, but she told her friends she might like me. Well it's been about 2 months now, and she has completely backed off. I mean she recently got back from Costa Rica, and we hasn't even talked since, and she got back on Sunday. And rumor has it that while there, she was all over these two guys in my youth, just like she used to be with me. Well now her friends say she dont like me at all, and just dont wanna hurt my feelings. But her and her mom are really close, and her mom says she's just scared, and cant decide between me and these other guys. But she says she duz like me. What should I think. I mean i just cant move on.
I mean i've liked and many girls, but none like her. There is just something about her, and I know I sound crazy since I'm only 15, but i'm being dead honest. I would do ANYTHING to get her back, will she come back around? And what should I do? I mean because, it was obvious she liked me, she even sent me a song one time, and I think she was trying to say something to the effect that she likes me, just doesnt know what to do. But i missed the point. Well now it seems she has lost those feelings, for no apparent reason, so what should i do to get her back??
2006-08-17 00:17:26 · 10 answers · asked by how many 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well shes obviously scared and a bit embarassed about the fact that she likes you and thats not nice!
you should give her space and time and stop being pushy or overly friendly............shell come around once she realises your worth!!!
2006-08-17 00:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by rockingal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing to realize is that she is 13. It is highly unlikely that you will be her last boyfriend. At this age, and even at 15, love is a muddled emotion at best. But to dote on someone so much is not healthy. She is obviously having fun getting the attention from males now and this could be a temporary or long lasting thing. Moreover, some females back away even more when guys are pursuing them hard. I would back off from here and see what happens. If she does care, you'll know soon enough as her thirst for adventure may wane and lead her back to you. Good luck!
2006-08-17 07:28:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is really young and so are you, she shouldn't have to make a decision like that at her age. She should be having fun and not worried about a long term relationship...Back off and give her time, maybe when she is 15 things will change...
2006-08-17 07:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
,Its an easy answer that usually gets the job done buy her a nice card write down how you feel about her .. That you have grown to like more than you thought you ever would and that not seeing or hearing from her is breaking your heart , tell her that it is her decision whether to see you or any other guy but you have to tell her that you have deep feelings for her and that she needs to call you so you can tell her these feelings .
2006-08-17 07:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she knows how you feel, you should back off give her space, you might push her further away if you keep on to her.
she may or may not come back to you, best of luck anyway.
2006-08-17 07:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by kelvin j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i can understand ur feelings.just go to her once again and express ur feelings before her.ask her why is she doing like that?is she afraid of anyone?why did she stop talking to u suddenly?also tell her that i wont disturb u,if u say yes or no.first go and talk with her freely,be brave.express all ur felling before her.if ahe still dont understand u its her badluck then.all the best.
plz inform me about ur love after u talk with her ok.
2006-08-17 07:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by kaivalya k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay No Attention to her !!!!!! go out with someone else. Once she finds out you are going out with someone else , your phone will start ringing off the hook. Girls like a challenge if your hard to get they want you more. That's how it is..... try it you'll see...........if you act like she doesn't exist it will make her crazy .
2006-08-17 07:32:51 · answer #7 · answered by DC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just back off, leave her alone for awhile. She seems confused and has a lot to think about.
2006-08-17 07:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by lala6789 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think her mom is right she is scared. You can ask her out again.
I remember when I was thirteen I was nervous so you can talk to her about it.
2006-08-17 07:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by Logan luv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are both SO young, just be there for her
when she needs you, be a true friend & respect her
space, she will come around when she's ready
2006-08-17 07:46:07 · answer #10 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋