Been with my bloke 1 year and 2 months and suddenly it's happening once to twice a week as opposed to 5/6 times per week. yes plenty of encouragement offered
2006-08-17 00:00:39 · 22 answers · asked by densis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
relationships do naturally develop as time goes on.
maybe at this time sex is not the most important thing to you after a year. maybe spending time together or roller skating is.
relationships change when theyre long term. ive been with my partner 6 years and we have some months where it is everyday and others where its once a week.
we work with how the other persons stress and work levels are and we dont put pressure on each other to 'perform'. we simply do it when we both want to an dont worry about what everybody else might be doing
this works for us
2006-08-17 00:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, i love how people give you such high hopes on here lol
oh man,
personally most people go through a time in their relationship where they aren't do'n it as much.... could be any reason... but believe it or not some times do'n it all the time isn't the greatest thing in the world... lol a year of doing it every day (pretty much).... should probably slow down....hard for most guys to say because normally it's the female that ends up slowing things down or travelling or who knows what other excuse lol
but if he's not leading a very busy life then by all means keep your eye open... because we all know people do cheat... but i wouldn't go asking him in less you have a specific person in mind that you think he's cheating with... opening up that conversation can quite often end a relationship fast.... but keeping it bottled up inside can make you depressed and push them away...
there's my wishywashy answer and sorry i couldn't be of more help lol
2006-08-17 00:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the bloke a break! Maybe he's going for quality not quantity - doesn't necessarily mean he's cheating.
2006-08-17 00:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by justasiam29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say not - doesnt that just happen in a relationship? And if you start going on and on at him he prob will go out and cheat, best to forget it and if he starts acting suspicious then you know you have something to worry about!
2006-08-17 00:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by natalie h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard to say, he might just be stressed or he has gotten over the rush of shaggin u and wants a new challenge. so its either he's already cheating or he's thinkin bout it. Tell him u straight that u wnt more sex if he obliges he was thinkin bout it, if situation stays the same he is cheating
2006-08-17 00:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by alexio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just life you've got in to a comfy routine and don,t have the needs to come on to each other as much. wait until you get married and have kids once a month if your lucky.
2006-08-17 00:07:56 · answer #6 · answered by lady_di_ar125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's bored with you or the situation maybe he has problems that he has not told you about! sadly but possibly true have a chat with him and discuss matters.
Or on the other hand he may be shagging someone else, just a thought.
2006-08-17 00:08:16 · answer #7 · answered by Rich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be gentle but ask him outright, as it is the only way to put your mind at rest. if you don't want to come out with "have you been cheating on me" you could ask "why do we not spend as much time together anymore?"
but be prepared for the outcome
HTH and all the best.
2006-08-17 00:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by sarah_roo03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
2006-08-17 00:04:14 · answer #9 · answered by J's On My Feet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Difficult to say. Perhaps he's under a lot of stress at work. If you're really worried about it, ask him.
2006-08-17 00:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋