Hi everybody,
If you have a girlfriend or boyfriend in your country.How do you feel when she/he go out with another girl/boy.Do you angy to him/her.Are you Jealous girl/boy. I'm usually jealous. I can't stand to her when she go out without me for this reason I don't give her permission to go out without me.What will you do If you were.
How is your feel
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Mesut
2006-08-16 23:15:46 · 17 answers · asked by PhotoARTist 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im a jealous type like you...i do get angry for a while and cry about it a lot...but you can't force people to treat you the way they want to....we don't control the way we are loved....the more you suffocate someone the more you'll be bound to lose them...one of the key elements of a relationship is trust....if your girl asks permission...that is actually good because she respects your feelings about her going out with other people...you have to trust her that she won't do anything bad while you're not around...if it makes you uncomfortable...let her know you don't really fancy the idea of her going out without you but if she wants it that way then she has a right to do as she pleases...its her life and you don't own it....sometimes you have to let people go even if it hurts...who knows in you absence she may realize the void when you're not around...
2006-08-16 23:27:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on individual natures. In "my" personal dictionary of life, there is no place for a word like jealousy ! Not that I have never been in your shoes, but I never give fleeting soap bubbles a damn! It is one Supreme Light that breaks up into a billions of parts, then each part again breaks up into billions and each identity dances in its own way in this elaborate Cosmic Dance, before dissolving back into the same Supreme Light. What an elaborate drama!
2006-08-17 06:35:28 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she's not a slave and she doesn't need your permission to do anything. If she is just going out with them as freinds then all of this might be down to your insecurity...but if there's more going on then it might be time to find a new girlfriend.
2006-08-17 06:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by paddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, I'd be jealous. I think what you're doing isn't wrong but don't go over board. You can't always be with her though. Sometimes she needs to be out with her girl friends, you know? Have girl chat, etc. If you love her, than you'll respect her and also trust her.
2006-08-17 06:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by *a∙e∙r∙i∙t∙h* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I am definitely jealous.And I think it's normal.No matter with who your girl/boy is going out.
And i think that if you give someone too much freedom,there is always risk that you will lose him.
Of course it's a question of trust also but...love without jealousy doesn't exist.
regards
2006-08-17 06:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by pretty woman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thank god your not my boyfriend...I have loads of male FRIENDS and a boyfriend...A girl doesn't need your "permission"...Do you ask her if you can go out without her?? Or maybe I'm not a jealous person, my boy can go out when he wants with whomever he wants and i don't care, because I know that he is coming home to me...You'll find that she ends up lying to you so she can see her friends, is that what you really want???
2006-08-17 06:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by vinyl_mad 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, are they just going out with a friend, or are they going on a date? There's a big difference. She doesn't need your permission to do anything.
2006-08-17 06:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
somehow, but not exactly in the way you said. I want some especial treatments but I don't make her my slave. and I think it's very normal, cause she is someone special in my life, so it'd ok if I ask for some special things.
2006-08-17 06:50:04 · answer #8 · answered by Mehdi ((sade del)) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well depends on who and what is the purpose of going out with this person ,but yes id be upset not unless he tells be before doing it
2006-08-17 06:46:24 · answer #9 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should give her , her own space and time , to do what ever she wants to do , (with in reason) everybody is there own person and should not have to answer to anyone ! they have ther own life and you should not be telling her what she can and can't do ....... all you will do is push her away and eventually she will want to find someone who does give her , her own space !!! back off her
2006-08-17 06:31:38 · answer #10 · answered by sweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋