cuz my gf asked me before if i love her because i need her or i need her that's why i love her....
2006-08-16 23:07:16 · 12 answers · asked by geno 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol, both mean the same
i think u meant to ask - u love her cause uneed her, or u need her because u love her
its both wrong
but its better if u love her and then need her
2006-08-16 23:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure I understand your question. Unless you're asking a chicken or the egg type of question I'd say they're the same question just phrased slightly different. If you are asking a chicken and egg questoin, well then it would basically be which comes first, need and then love or love and then need. In which case I'd have to say it depends on the person and the situation but regardless both sound more like co-dependence than love and that is not a good thing!
2006-08-17 06:17:52 · answer #2 · answered by Sinurgy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and need shouldn't go together at all. That makes for some wharped relationships and unhealthy ones too. Needy people are suffocating and eventually you get tired of it. Love should be about mutually meeting the needs and adding something to the other persons life, NEED implies all the wrong things.
2006-08-17 06:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both are wrong
First - if u love someone because he or she gives u somethinig (money, or good sex, or comfort) that's not true love, because what will happen if he or she suddenly stoped to give u that?
True love is all about loving someone the way he or she is, be with him all the way, no matter what happens
True love is to be with someone bacause of everything he is and despite of evertything he is not.
2006-08-17 06:17:31 · answer #4 · answered by Teodora Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both things have the same meaning. I think your question should have read more like this"do you love for girlfriend because you need her, or need her because you love her".
2006-08-17 06:13:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I loved her and was the reason I wanted her to be peresent and have special place in my life. I loved her and then I needed her in my life
2006-08-17 06:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by Mehdi ((sade del)) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both is about the same..but i love a person because my heart tells me so. and that person deserves my love.
2006-08-17 06:13:20 · answer #7 · answered by mei mei 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know anymore the older you get the more the partners seem to mess with your head..so watch out!
2006-08-17 06:11:16 · answer #8 · answered by Veevee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your answer to your gf should be.... that you love her that's why u need her... but but but!!!!! to love anyone that much is unhealthy!
2006-08-17 06:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love has to be unconditional so it has to b you need him or her because you love him or her
2006-08-17 06:13:58 · answer #10 · answered by sandnigga_og 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋