I start to wonder about me and about people over here . I'm normal like other normal guy , I do what guys do but when it comes to ladies I'm out of game. It wasn't like this back home a year ago ( Africa ). I was thinking it might be because of my accent, I'm originally from a English speaking country but have studied in french country . Or it might be because I'm African (which I cherish to be ,and very happy to be an African ) ? or it's simply because I havn't met the right person ? or it's because I don't get a good job and work crazy hours ? And I'm almost 28 y/o.
I don't know .
2006-08-16 22:27:23 · 5 answers · asked by goodguy7 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know, an accent and being from Africa should be working to your benefit! It sounds like working crazy hours might be hindering your chances to get out there and meet people. Women generally like men who are cultured, so don't try to change anything about who you are and continue to be proud of your heritage. Things here could be a little different when it comes to how you are approaching women. I know a lot of countries men are more straight forward than they are here, and American women usually like to be pursued slowly. Try asking someone out to coffee. Let her know a little about yourself and learn more about her. Wait a while before telling her you're interested, actions speak louder than words and are sometimes less intimidating. Be a gentlemen and get yourself out there! You'll be meeting more people in no time. Even starting a polite conversation with a woman at the grocery store could get you a date for lunch with a future love interest.
2006-08-16 22:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by Cindie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are in a new place, with new people, and are having trouble. Try something new. Instead of having "game", try not looking for the women, do things for yourself, put you as number one. That self-confidence will naturally draw people to you. Good Luck!
2006-08-17 05:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lemme tell ya... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't search for love... let love search for you. Just be yourself. Enjoy other things around you. Someday it will come and you'll be happy.
2006-08-17 05:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta meet the girl u like first of all. i think your question is rather weird like you are waiting for the girl to choose you, i mean do u know what type of girl u like?
2006-08-17 05:34:31 · answer #4 · answered by UltimateKitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself
2006-08-17 05:31:27 · answer #5 · answered by ......... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋