How can people heal so fast and just grab another, well after a time.
Isn't love meant to last forever?
Did it affect you relationship with God?
2006-08-16 22:16:36 · 8 answers · asked by carl 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I haven't, but my parents divorced when I was younger and it really hit my dad hard. He relied on God to help him through it and he made it just fine. It did take a while for him to start dating. A few years I think. He's happily married now.
Good luck to you!
2006-08-16 22:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by ☼ lovethesun11 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If we were to love our spouses as God loves us, we wouldn't have these problems. People today have some much "self love" and little love for others. I had fallen into that trap (before Christ) and we were so close to divorce. Well he has been the One to heal our wounds. But me being the the way I was, "what can he do for me? I have to do everything! Why this, why that?" Nag, nag, nag!! Um.. to have a perfect spouse you need to be perfect in all ways. People think that having some one else will heal you, that's not the case, it drops your self esteem. You have all this baggage in the back of your head. It takes a lot of strength to make 1 marriage work then to find people. After being in my 3rd marriage, this is what has brought me to God. Last year that's when I truly fell in love with my husband of 4 years and it was thru Christ. It's each persons responsibility to make it work and if it were out of your hands, turn to God not away. Trust and obey and lean not on your own understanding. Only He can see you thru
2006-08-17 05:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God had nothing to do with my divorce. My ex husband and I controlled that. We made the bad choices that caused it. Not God.
As for healing so fast? I didn't...I haven't. Being with another doesn't always equal healing. I just tried to move on with my life and live with the hurt.
And there's plenty of hurt. There's not a day that goes by where I don't think of my ex husband and our marriage and what happened between us. Not a day goes by where I don't ask myself all the "what if" questions. I just have to keep going and eventually I know it will get better. It can't possibly hurt any worse
2006-08-17 05:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by dreamergiggles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not need to feel that way coz the marriage is already over and u do not need to feel betray because there is nothing u can do because everything is no longer in your control juz get on with ur life do not need to look for another girlfriend as replacement juz relax and think is there anything that u want to do as a single enjoy the moment of being single juz put aside the unhappy moment
go out with ur frenz and chill out with them do something crazy go for a trip it got nothing to with god this is all about people and situation u will find love as long as u believe there is someone out there that love u and u will be happy forever
2006-08-17 05:29:49 · answer #4 · answered by astrid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it did not affect my relationship with God,but it did hurt my trusting abilities in others.When you feel it is hurting your relationship with God,is when you should start reaching out to God more then ever.God has a great plan for you even though you do not understand now,God will give you something better.
2006-08-17 05:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by Pisces 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I split with my 1st ex husband and moved in with my soon to be 2nd ex husband 3 months later.
The 1st cheated on me for 2 yrs of a 3 yr marriage and produced a child and the 2nd, I wasn't looking for, it just happened and lasted 10 yrs, then we grew apart.
In today's day and age, love doesn't last forever, but what ever doesn't kill you makes you stronger, so we push on.
I don't believe in God, per se, so that doesn't apply to me.
2006-08-17 05:24:21 · answer #6 · answered by maat13101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm fairly recently divorced but my ex and I are very good friends still. For us it was just realizing that our lives were moving in different directions and thought we each needed to find someone that was moving in the same directions we both were. We're both the happier for it! We're actually better friends now than when we were married.
2006-08-17 05:24:27 · answer #7 · answered by TRKiev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it affected my bank account.
60 percent of marriages fail in the usa.
learn a lesson, please don't get married again without a pre-nup.
god wants the best for you if you are smart.
2006-08-17 05:28:08 · answer #8 · answered by getit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋