would you break up with your boifriend if he went out to go get drunk with out telling, but then he told you that he got drunk with other gurls {ther was guys ther too} and those gurls gave him a ride home. he told you he didnt cheat. would you still break up with him even after he told you honestly what happend or would you have just been mad but gotten over it?
we are both 16 and we wer almost together for two months, oh and im her ex boyfriend : [
2006-08-16 21:52:46 · 10 answers · asked by pirate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wouldn't but if i was her it would be harder for her to trust u again u should ask for another chance and tell her that you where being honest about what happen and that u love her well good luck with every thing and if u love her and she gives u another chance then make sure u don't do anything stupid to lose her again good luck
2006-08-16 22:07:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you both are still very young. If they break up with you for telling the truth what would she do if you lied to her. Go out and find you another girlfriend and enjoy your youth while you still can.Being jealous will break up a relationship fast every time. You must learn to trust each other in order for a relationship to work without trust you have nothing.
2006-08-17 05:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by meow333323 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only point of dating that young is to build experience for later relationships. learn from your mistakes. part of a healthy relationship is realizing that loving someone doesnt make them perfect. you will piss eachother off and even hurt eachother. but you love and understand that person, so you forgive them because they forgive you. try to be as honest and loving as possible, but also be realistic. we are all humans and screw up. so dont walk all over someone, or let them walk all over you, but find a healthy balance. tell them that what they did was wrong and hurt you. if they are truly sorry and just made a mistake, then forgive them. thats what its all about. putting someone up on a pedestal means that they will only fall. remember we are all screw ups, and try to be understanding. dont use eachother, but just be there for eachother. and sometimes, if there is a problem, it may be more than what meets the eye. if someone is angry and lashing out, dont get mad back. try to find what is bothering them, or, just give them the space to relax and figure things out for themselves. never both be angry at the same time. look deeper for the reason they are upset, rather than just reacting to the anger. best of luck, and you have plenty of time to find your true soulmate
2006-08-17 05:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
-do unto others as you want done to yourself.-
if you would have been ok with her doing it then she should be too if not find a new girl. 2 months is not a long time. im still a freshman at this love thing and my relationship has lasted for almost 2 years next month. so..
2006-08-17 14:44:31 · answer #4 · answered by spicysaucylatina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think I would break up with you...sounds a bit silly, especially if it's the first time you lied to her. I'd forgive you, but I'm pretty secure. Are you sure there is nothing else behind all of this??
2006-08-17 04:58:43 · answer #5 · answered by vinyl_mad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't break up with him, I'd grow up and get over it! geez! I mean, if I know the guy's trustworthy(and that's big with me, it's HARD to get my trust. I mean like, really effing hard), then of course I'll forgive him! He tells the truth, I get over it and make out with him! :) I wouldn't break up with someone if he told the truth, there's just so much hurt that could be so easily avoided
2006-08-17 06:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess she felt you were not worth keeping. I dont think you did anything wrong. You are still young to start reporting your every move. As long you are not doing anything that you wouldnt like her to do , i do not see any problem.
2006-08-17 05:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by Patricia N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god! teen drama!!! first of all your to young to drink. second of all, you to aren't married. so go hang out with your friends. is she mad that she wasn't invited to go along? why didn't she go with you? either way, YOUR JUST A KID!!! don't sweat it. quit dinking, you don't wanna grow up to be a drunken fool, do you? and then figure out what you want out of life. a g/f or a huge party?
2006-08-17 14:46:10 · answer #8 · answered by angela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm if im your gf i would get mad at you for quite some time but if i have prove that you're damn lying, i'll kick ur *** and we're done. coz guys OFTEN tells lies! and we're sick of it!
2006-08-17 05:00:01 · answer #9 · answered by ♥switie♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why r you f*cking whipped.
2006-08-17 05:14:21 · answer #10 · answered by Giraffe 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋