What is your decission?? Let him go or let him stay?? You do trust him and he trust you.
2006-08-16 21:46:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would let him go. As long as you trust each other there should be no problem. But the trust has to be both ways and it should not be betrayed.
2006-08-16 21:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by zaazzy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband is in the miltary.So we really don't have a choice.He left for an entire year only 2 weeks after our 3rd child was born.So I was stuck at home post surgery (c section) with post partum depression with a newborn,an 18 month old and a 3 yr old.It was hard and we had pre existing problems in our marriage.So problems did arise but we got past them.We basically chalked it up to lesson learned and it made us stronger.Everyone is bound to make mistakes.The question isn't whether or not they will cheat.But when he leaves you need to know if both of you are strong enough to get past anything that might go wrong.If you or him do not have the ability to get past any hard times then maybe it might be a good idea to seek some sort of marital or couples therapy to prepare yourselves.Nothing is worth losing the person you love.
2006-08-16 22:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by sunkissed299 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
I had to... It wasnt out of country but it was 1500 miles away.
It happened twice in one year that he left out of state for work, first for 6 months then this last time for 4 months
You know it will be ok, trust is USUALLY earned and not just given away!
2006-08-16 22:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because i trust him and between the time i can visit him and that's a possibility to grown in his job.
2006-08-17 00:42:08 · answer #4 · answered by Cindy T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not. as long as u trust and understand each and other, u should allow. The income earned will stabilize your family life. luv has no boundaries and distance is never a barrier
2006-08-16 21:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by lanks20032003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both trust and respect each other, let him go. If you have no trust and respect, bad things can happen anywhere.
2006-08-16 21:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by Sue F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah i guess ill let him....it wont hurt to have my own time without him...you could spend time with your girlfriends partying out...as long as you be a good girl...if you trust him, then go for it....you'll never know what you've missed if you dont...
2006-08-16 21:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by akasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah sure. there's mutual trust right? so i don't really see any problem. there's a line that goes- 'if you love him let him go. and if he comes back he's meant to be yours'...
2006-08-16 21:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by s e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea sure..y not if its only for 5 months and its for his career growth....and if he wants to go...
but after that 5 month stint he shouldnt be willing to take any other such offers...
2006-08-16 21:52:21 · answer #9 · answered by v v 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I really don't like that word...would you "let" him/her go....it's not up to you...you do have your opinion and it should be listened to..marriage is a bit different...that you'd have to agree on...
2006-08-16 22:01:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋