we've been together almost 2 months, and i'm 16. i've said ilove you to 2 other girls, one i was with for 2 years and the other for 7 months. they both ended badly, and one of them cheated on me. i want to take this one slow but i know that she won't cheat on me and she's so amazing. we're always together too and she understands me. idk if i should tell her i love her or wait. i don't want to scare her or move too fast bcuz it always ends so badly. should i wait? or should i say something else like 'you mean a lot to me' or should i just tell her i love her? please help.
2006-08-16 21:28:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
16? so i assume you were 14/15 when you told your ex girlfs you love them...to be blunt that's fast. I wonder how you define love?
But then again anyone from any age could fall in love. Okay here's the deal, you just been goin on with this girl for two months, being together with her every single day doesnt mean you know her in and out. First i want you to examine your feeling very carefully on this one, as you've been hurted before am sure you will do everything in your power to prevent them from hapening again. So please, please take more time untill youre very sure and with no doubts that you love her. At the moment you can just tell her, how much you care about her and want to be near her always. And that you're sure this relationship is going to be more stable and going somewhere...good luck...
2006-08-16 21:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by sassygurlhelps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 yrs old, boy are you not too young to actually talk of love now. I really think what should be bothering you right now is your education. It is good to love and have friends, but you must understand that each comes step-by-step. Well, if you must date then just be friends for now, don't say 'I LOVE U or U mean a lot to me' for now. Observer her for a little longer, 2 months is just too soon. You never know what one can come up with in a twinkle of an eye. Best of luck.
2006-08-16 21:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it more pleasure if you keep silent. According to your own statement your relationship is just begin.Better if you try to know her before fall in love. Maybe you just interested but not in love.Beside that you are too young...
2006-08-16 21:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by na 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say "you mean a lot to me" coz i love you is just TOO big...take it slow.
2006-08-16 21:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋