How Long Should I leave it....?

Question

before I call my bf, or should I wait for him to call me. I am not sure he will, so I will have to resist the urge to call him. Any advice (well nice advice) greatly appreciated x

Answer 1

next time keep him awaiting and then see his behaviour.
u can understand yourself after that.
all the best friend!
:-)

Answer 2

Hi! Not sure he will call you!!! OMG, if that's what you believe what sort of relationship are you having. Not a great one. If he calls, then you should be glad. If it's u who's been doing all the calling then he might be waiting for you to call. If so, tell him in some way that it would be nice to receive a call rather than making it all the time. What sort of men/boys do you have other there. Sounds like it's the dumb type. Here in Cyprus, there's too many over jealous controlling idiots who've no respect for their halves. I believe that at least 60% of the world male population are scumbags. I have no intention to fall in that category.

Answer 3

Everyone goes through this at the start of a relationship. If he is your boyfriend though, you should be able to talk to him any time, and not worry that he will react badly just because you want to call him!

Obviously if you were calling 50 times a day or something, I'd say you need to rein it in a bit. But I'd say if you haven't seen him in a couple of days, and you want to talk to him - just call! Men aren't as good with phones as women are, if you wait for him to call it could take a while - not because he doesn't want to talk to you, just because it hasn't occurred to him to lift a phone!

How about sending him a text or an email? That way you don't need to worry about bothering him because he'll respond when he can.

Answer 4

The real question here is 'Why are u not sure he will?' Is there something you are not telling us.
Anyway, get on with it. What's all this with three day rules and all that stuff of call first call last etc. If u want to talk to him, pick the phone.
A guy respects and cherishes a girl not because she does not call him first and he has to chase her all the time but because of her personality and integrity. Remember that!!!

Answer 5

If you've had an argument or something it depends on what happened, who was at fault etc.

If you're just thinking about calling him, then call him. No point playing games or trying to calculate responses etc. If you miss him tell him. Maybe he'll appreciate it and do the same for you.

If it ends up being a one-way thing, then you might have to think differently.

Answer 6

There isnt a time scale on how long you should or shouldnt leave it. If you think he wont call is he really worth bothering with anyway, when you are with someone the first person you should want to speak to is your other half. You could just text him to see if he resonds, then call him the following day. something along those lines. Just make sure you dont send your self round the bend. goodluck - hope he calls you!!

Answer 7

How sad would it be if you two broke up because neither one wanted to do something simple like call the other one? If you feel the urge to call him then do it. So long as you're not calling every ten minutes it shouldn't be a big deal.

Answer 8

call him after what?/ and how serious are you guys?? this question depends on many factors..
if you've had an argument, it depends on what it was about etc.. if you know you were in the wrong, you need to call him first, and straight away so you can make up.. if on the other hand, he was wrong, then wait for him to make the first move.. if you dont hear anything in 3 days, then call him and ask him what's wrong - maybe he doesnt realise he was wrong and you need to talk to him about this - maybe there are some underlying issues...
But in summary, protect yourself - dont go all out running after him if he clearly is not interested or doesnt care as much as you - you deserve someone who cares as much as you do... otherwise your on a downward slope..
i dont know what else to say with so little to go on, but good luck! x

Answer 9

Well if he cares about you then call him, it won't be a biggie :) I am a guy and I am still waiting for calls, oh yeah thats why! Im a geek :P Seriously though, unless you are young and are afraid of waking parents, it shouldn't be a big deal.

Answer 10

Why resist the urge? There's no law against calling. You *did* say he was your bf, so what's the hangup?

Answer 11

I would call him...what is this waiting thing for? Did you get in a fight? Doesn't matter. Call him and if he isn't there leave a message and tell him you called and then its up to him to call you back.