i became good friends with this guy. the first day i saw him i liked him. he was so sweet & the perfect gentlemen. we did get a couple of fights. we flirted alot. he sometimes grabbed my boobs & butt. he had a girlfriend though. now he moved & he loves his girlfriend. should i have told him i really liked him or should tell him i like him now?
2006-08-16 21:17:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is a touchy question. If he loves his girlfriend, then no. And why were you letting him grab your ***? That's not too cool, friend or no friend. Guy has girl, back the **** off.
2006-08-16 21:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by phe_03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are he didn't like you as much as you liked him at the time or he wouldn't have let you go and moved on to the other girl. If he did he would've left his last girl friend, or at least pursued you once that girl was out of the picture. Since he did flirt with you while he was with someone else, if you contacted him now he would either do one of two things:
1. He would find it as an easy way to cheat on his girlfriend now, hurting her and eventully hurting you (worse than you're feeling now just because you're afraid you missed an opportunity)
2. He would blow you off because he's in love with this other girl which would make things weird if you ever saw him again. Even if you saw him single again your chances would be over because there wouldn't be any chase (guys like the chase)
2006-08-17 04:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Cindie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off never do something to someone you would not want done to you. How would you feel if you had a boyfriend and some other Chicky poo was making a play for him. He is in love, he is happy. Tell him nothing. You knew he had a gf and you should have never allowed him to touch you in certain areas. He crossed the line. So put it this way. If he left his gf for you, he would only flirt with other girls and touch them in certain places. He would leave you for someone else.
If you love someone, set them free and if they come back it was meant to be.
2006-08-17 04:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time I reach for the boob&butt regions, I get clocked. Some guys have all the luck
2006-08-17 04:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by toooextreeeme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that he never wanted anything more from you than just a good time, even if he may have seem flirtatious with you... if he would have wanted anything more I'm quite sure he would have done something. I think it's useless to wonder what would have happened if you told him your true feelings, and now it's too late... but if you think that by telling him you would be at ease with yourself then maybe you should do it, but you should get ready for a disappointment...
2006-08-17 04:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by Eliana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it really ok for you to build your luck on making someone else unhappy. let it go. if he flirts with you while he has a girlfriend and grabs your boobs he'll propably do the same to you
2006-08-17 04:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by purple butterfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep close to him and try always to fool with him and tell him as a joke that when he leaves his girlfriend you will be willing , and things like that .
but in front of her be nice so she don't have fight with you and you can stay arround .
2006-08-17 04:23:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well considering the fact that he is not single it would cause u
sadness by carry on...in case that he reject u....
I suggest u to leave things the way they are in order to avoid
a possible traumatic experience
2006-08-17 04:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by tickling-feet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
though u loved him but he took the chance of ur weakness. he has never loved u. its better u keep urself away from him. if he asks then once u try to clear.just show him as if u r least bothered about him
2006-08-17 04:28:18 · answer #9 · answered by neha s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him alone. If its meant to be then one day he and his current girlfriend will break up. Then you tell him how you feel.
2006-08-17 04:21:54 · answer #10 · answered by ~*~I Don't Love Him Anymore~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋