2006-08-16 21:01:53 · 13 answers · asked by celticfrost20032000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, first of all, don't treat them special just because they are girls. they already get that treatment. treat them like a person instead. if you go on thinking a girl is so incredible or whatever, you'll have a hard time talking to her. which makes it hard for her to get to know you.
dating? all a date is, is a thing where you go to learn about a girl, and fun is pretty much a necessity. that's what defines a date (to me)
as for what else to do with a girl... anything that doesn't bring you too far into feeling uncomfortable. you will always feel slightly uncomfortable, but that's part of the fun, getting over small steps like that
2006-08-16 21:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by Jim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At most times I don't know how to deal with girls, but I really do, not romatically. I show them my sense of humor, that gets them to smile or laugh. Girls, I think, like all guys with sense of humor. I have never been on a date in my life. Even though that, I work in a grocery store, where my department is mostly girls/women. I am 25 years old & haver never dated before, nor have I ever been kissed, but I do know how to make a girl smile. If I can't then I'll find a way.
2006-08-16 21:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel you, and I don't really have an answer for you. I think self confidence is key though. If you are confident in yourself, you will exude that. Try going to functions where you know the people there will have similiar interests to yours. Try online dating also, as you can build a rapport with a person without meeting them first and after that your anxiety should mellow. You may also suffer from a clinical social phobia and it can possibly treated. I know how it can be, it sucks that men have to live up to certain expectations.
2006-08-16 21:11:56 · answer #3 · answered by Blankito 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I bet that I've been at least as shy as you. And you know what? I learned to overcome my shyness and it feels great!
There were no tricks. Just simple, strong desire to do thing what I wanted to do. At one point you decide to be brave and then you do it. Of course you "fail" many many times, but what does it matter. This is your life. You have to do something with it before you die. And I recommend doing things that you desire most.
2006-08-16 21:24:14 · answer #4 · answered by BonAqua Identity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have some girls as friends 1st then ask them about what to do in a reationship. they should at least start u off in the right direction, then later go for books on how to date properly
2006-08-16 21:06:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then Date a Guy!
2006-08-16 21:13:17 · answer #6 · answered by Ðøwñ tø Ëã®th 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start with the flirty girls first.When you are more experienced,you can find the other girls.
Girls like man who are flirty.But in marriage is the opposite.
2006-08-16 21:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by Nickname 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most girls dont like shy guys. break out of ur shell.. be confident and a little cocky. girls..well, most of us, love that in a guy.
2006-08-16 21:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just go up to a gurl u like and b like hey my nane is ____ and ur name is__well i was wondering u wanna go 2 a movie or sumthing just b really confident and just have fun and make her laugh or be really sweet if u can b both!!
2006-08-16 21:25:34 · answer #9 · answered by Stephanie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's so easy. ACT like you know what you're doing until you really do.
2006-08-16 21:09:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋