Ok, if I see a girl i want to get to know in the mall, or any place else, how do I go about approaching her? From a girls perspective, what would I say? What would i say so that it wasn't "weird" or something? I'm 18 btw and have had girlfriends before, but I have known them from school or a friend, etc. I want to know what I would have to do to approach someone like that without it being "weird" or something..
2006-08-16 20:43:58 · 8 answers · asked by BMD 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha 18 arh ... ok getting to kno a person at a mall is quite dangerous 4 eu info... and hmm ways u can approach her is u could try walking up to her ... but make sure she has no BF bcos u may want to prepare to run ... and may be u could ask her friend but most girls will not like it but u can try :P so good luck finding gals to your type
2006-08-16 20:49:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um....anybody walking up to me randomly in a mall and hitting on me is automatically weird. Try to meet people somewhere in an actual social situation (party, bar, friend's house, school, etc.).
2006-08-17 03:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by Qwyrx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to her. you'll be regretting the fact that you didn't at least attempt to talk to her. but, dont ask for her number the first time u talk to her (if u do confront her) that would be weird. go up to her like u would go up to someone new in ur school.
ask her a question, or compliment her... say anything.. nothing is really that weird.. i'm sure u wouldnt say something like "hey... your hot" so dont worry too much about what you should say.
and if she rejects u, dont worry about it. move on. ur young, so go have fun ,
2006-08-17 04:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you walk up to a girl in a shopping mall and ask for her phone number, then you have a 50% chance she will say ok. So why not try it?
2006-08-17 03:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jenni 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just say hi, and ask how she is! I got that from this cute guy I was walking by at a friend's house, and it totally made my day! LOL afterwards, my friend looks at me and said, omg dude, he was totally hitting on you! Keep it simple, and you'll do great :)
2006-08-17 07:06:01 · answer #5 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask for directions and make her do some explaining a little longer. then offer her a cup of soda or a can of pepsi as a sign of gratitude. give your name & tel no. but don't ask hers. now you leave but be aware where she is going so that you can "accidentally meet her again". this time, ask her name but not the tel no. yet.
2006-08-17 03:53:46 · answer #6 · answered by lette 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well approach her and say gently "Excuse me Ma'am Forgive me if im rude it's difficult for me to express myself I am on the verge of exploding in my pants."
2006-08-17 04:47:07 · answer #7 · answered by Ðøwñ tø Ëã®th 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
got to have game. and work on that "yall". I cant see any girl going for that "yall"
2006-08-17 03:50:09 · answer #8 · answered by *ICE* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋