What should you do if you courted someone who dont want to have a lovers relationship but only friendship? I told her my feelings and she said that shes already comfortable with that kind of a relationship. That she doesnt want that to be ruined what do you think is the reason please help girls! By the way shes my classmate and she always makes my day happy one time that she got sick for the whole week that im the first person that she told me that she had a very high fever! I asked permissions to his brothers and they said yes that i could court there sister. Where both 3rd year highschool. What should I do?
2006-08-16 20:35:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well its tough.
The best thing to do is find someone who is interested in you.
If she doesn't want a serious relationship then she doesn't want one.
It sucks to hear but its whats true.
If not that you could show her how much you care for her. You cant just say something like "I like (or love) you"
People hear it so much its nearly meaningless now
She might be scared of losing you as a friend if it didn't work out.
If that's the case you need to sit down and talk to her. Promise her that no matter what you will always be friends in the end.
2006-08-16 20:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you both are very young and she probably is just scared, she sounds like she doesnt want to lose the great friendship you have going on right now, if you really like her and want your relationship to go further you both need to sit down and talk about how you are feeling. the best advice i can give is just to talk it out, you wont know unless you ask and even if it not the answer you are wanting at least you know and you can still be friends but not waste your time waiting, you can find someone to have that kind of relationship with and still be her friend if you want.
2006-08-17 03:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by Christal D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead asking her to be your girlfriend, go and show her you can be her boyfriend as in ask her out on a date. If she refuses just ask her to give you a chance.
2006-08-17 03:55:34 · answer #3 · answered by Berties 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her and make her come to you! She will crave your attention when you stop giving it!. Make her laugh alot too, then she will really fall for you. Or date her friend, that will make her jealous!
2006-08-17 03:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think she likes you but not loves you so wait for some times and then approch to her and ask her to be your girl friend.
2006-08-17 05:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by Ðøwñ tø Ëã®th 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're still young. enjoy the extra-ordinary friendship you have with her. don't be so impatient. only time will tell if you will be together.
2006-08-17 03:41:52 · answer #6 · answered by pRoFouNd PrOfunDiTy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a honey do not push too hard give her time too see what see is missing
2006-08-17 03:42:33 · answer #7 · answered by pop 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares, forget and spew forth hatred, revenge and anger.
2006-08-17 03:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really like her be patient with her. She may just be scared.
2006-08-17 03:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she just isnt ready for u yet...just stick around her 1st be her friend and wait for her to be ready
2006-08-17 03:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by rulewell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋